Monday, October 19, 2015

It's Monday 10/19! What Are You Reading?


Quiet Monday morning home alone, after a nice weekend with my family. Spent Saturday evening with my husband, then he left for a business trip Sunday, and I had both of my sons home for dinner and even some TV together - very nice!


Lots of good books last week, and I am really enjoying my annual spooky October reading!
  • I finished The Three by Sarah Lotz for my R.I.P. X Challenge - I gave it to my husband and father last year and am glad I finally got to it. It's the story of 4 simultaneous plane crashes that left only 3 children as survivors and is told in a journalistic way, with accounts from many different people involved in different ways. It was very compelling and creepy!
  • Now, I am reading The Unwanteds by Lisa McMann (one of my favorite authors!), a middle-grade dystopian fantasy about a world that favors usefulness where any child with a creative or artistic ability is labeled Unwanted and sent for Elimination, but there is a secret magical world focused on the arts. This is a different kind of October read but is very good so far.
  • I finished the teen/YA audiobook The Cemetery Boys by Heather (Zac) Brewer and really enjoyed it. It combines an engaging, realistic story about a teen boy struggling with major changes in his life with some supernatural creepiness - another perfect fit for October and my R.I.P. X Challenge!
  • Now, I am listening to a spooky classic: Dracula by Bram Stoker, a free download from SYNC this summer. It is excellent so far - such a creepy tone! The voices on the audio are great, especially that of the Count himself. In an odd way, it actually adds to the foreboding to know basically how the story goes.
  • My husband, Ken, is reading The Name of the Wind by Patrick Rothfuss. This is one of our son's favorite books and is being made into a movie AND a TV show
  • Jamie, 21, is still reading The Blood King by Gail Z. Martin, book 2 in the Chronicles of the Necromancer series, another epic fantasy series. He really enjoyed book 1, The Summoner, so he is looking forward to the rest of the series.
I didn't have time (or energy) to write as many book reviews as I'd hoped last week (still behind!), but I managed a few blog posts:
Movie Monday: The Life Before Her Eyes, starring Uma Thurman, a haunting movie about friendship & tragedy, based on a novel

TV Tuesday: The Good Wife and Madam Secretary - two excellent shows about powerful women

Fiction Review: Go Set a Watchman by Harper Lee, plus a discussion of the controversies

Saturday Snapshot - First signs of fall in my neighborhood

As you can see, I have added weekly reviews of TV shows and movies to my blog recently, so if like me, you also enjoy TV and movies as well as books, check out all of my media reviews!

What are you and your family reading this week?    

What Are You Reading Monday is hosted by Sheila at Book Journey, with a kid/teen version hosted by Unleashing Readers
 
    

Saturday, October 17, 2015

Saturday Snapshot 10/17


Saturday Snapshot is hosted by West Metro Mommy Reads. 

I finally got out of the house a bit this week and took a (very slow!) walk around my block for the first time since August! We are still mostly green here, but I noticed some fall color slowly creeping into our trees:

We used to have lots of mums - these are the only ones left!

Neighbor's yellow trees among all the green

My shadow with a few fall leaves

Red & yellow (same yellow tree - different view)

Mix of green and yellow leaves in the sunlight

Enjoy this lovely fall weekend!

Thursday, October 15, 2015

Fiction Review: Go Set a Watchman


I read Harper Lee’s iconic, Pulitzer Prize-winning novel To Kill a Mockingbird for the first time about ten years ago and immediately fell in love with it, as have so many before me. I discovered it was not about hunting, as I thought when I saw it on my parents’ shelves as a child, but was the quintessential story of childhood, told with warmth and humor, alongside a story of historical racial inequity and injustice. The novel quickly rose to my favorites of all time, and I experienced a genuine affection for both Scout, its six-year old narrator, and her dignified, loving lawyer father, Atticus, who defended a man against false charges, without regard for the color of his skin.

As most people know (unless you spent this summer on another planet), a new/old novel of Harper Lee’s was released in July this year, Go Set a Watchman. The story behind this book is that it was Lee’s first novel that she sent to her publisher, about a grown young woman named Jean Louise (childhood nickname Scout) who returns home from NYC to visit the small Alabama town in which she grew up. The publisher responded that what they liked most about it was the flashbacks of Jean Louise recalling her childhood and the times she spent with her brother, Jem, and friend, Dill. They asked her if she could write a different novel, based on the same characters but focused on the girl’s childhood instead. And, thus, To Kill a Mockingbird was written, that first novel was filed away somewhere, and the rest is history.

According to the publisher, that first novel was recently re-discovered in some old archives. When they realized what they had, they obtained permission from Harper Lee (who is now 89 and living in a nursing home), and finally, after all these years, published that first manuscript. Criticisms, controversies, and gossip have surrounded this book’s publication, and everyone involved in books and reading seems to have an opinion. As for me? I loved To Kill a Mockingbird and was thrilled to have something new (old) from Harper Lee to read. My husband gave it to me for my birthday this summer, and I enjoyed Go Set a Watchman, though it is quite different from Mockingbird in some ways (and wonderfully familiar in others).

As the novel opens, Jean Louise (aka Scout) is 26 years old and has been living in New York City, working to become a writer. She returns home to Maycomb County, as she has each of the past five years, for a visit. She is eager to see her beloved father, Atticus, her aunt, Alexandria, and her longtime friend, now-boyfriend, Henry Clinton, who meets her at the train station. Her old house is now the site of an ice cream parlor, but little else has changed in Maycomb County on the surface. The town seems to have stood still while the rest of the world moved on around it.

This novel is very much a coming-of-age story (although its main character is a bit older than is typical – perhaps think of it as a second coming-of-age) about learning to think for yourself and separating from your parents. After living in New York City in the 1950’s, Jean Louise has a very different outlook on life and the larger world than she did as a child whose only point of reference was her small Southern town. Although her affection for Atticus remains, you can begin to see signs of conflict between the two, as Jean Louise’s more modern and evolved points of view come up against those of the traditional South. The two debate issues, as they always have, but there is more of an edge to their arguments than there used to be. It’s the classic struggle of a child growing up and beginning to see that her parent is perhaps not the perfect ideal she’d always thought but a normal, flawed human being.

On this visit home, Jean Louise notices – perhaps for the first time – certain inequities in the way the races are treated and a stark contrast to the way things are in New York. Moreover, she notices differences in the whole social fabric of her town – obvious tensions where before, especially from her child’s perspective, there were none. A visit to her beloved Calpurnia, the black woman who cared for her and Jem and Atticus for decades, is especially disturbing to Jean Louise.  She even conflicts with Henry, with whom she’d had an uncomplicated relationship until now.

Jean Louise peeks in on a town meeting, which Atticus is attending, that especially upsets her. Eventually, tensions come to a head and she finally confronts Atticus about his actions and her own thoughts and feelings. They have a lengthy, angry argument over civil rights, racial inequality, and state’s rights. When she was a child, things seemed to be simple and straightforward to her, but now it all seems to be shades of gray. In and among the tensions and arguments, however, are interspersed Jean Louise’s remembrances of her childhood: warm, funny scenes exactly like those in To Kill a Mockingbird.

I enjoyed this novel overall. Although To Kill a Mockingbird feels more polished (probably due to a lengthier editing process in which she was directly involved), it is a more idealistic and nostalgic novel. In contrast, Go Set a Watchman is a grittier, probably more realistic novel, filled with tension, but also more thoughtful and thought provoking. My one criticism is that it can veer slightly into the preachy, with lengthy speeches by both Jean Louise and Atticus. It is the kind of novel that you have to keep setting aside briefly and thinking about, mulling over the arguments of the two main characters.

It seems clear that Lee’s first novel was written in 1957 to provoke debate on civil rights and was very likely deemed too controversial by her publisher. Reading it now, in 2015, it is still controversial, though for different reasons. Overall, though, I found it to be an engaging, thoughtful story of both a young woman growing up and changing, as well as a nation and town’s struggle with changes. As you can tell from this lengthy review and the additional discussion below, this novel really made me think…and I like that in a book.

 278 pages, HarperCollins

 
The Controversies:
(no spoilers here if you have heard anything at all about Go Set a Watchman in the media – I only touch on the headlines in the media, not any specific plot points)

Much has been made about the difference in Atticus in this novel versus To Kill a Mockingbird – headlines screaming that he’s a racist, vitriolic rants about destroying a beloved literary hero, and criticisms that it’s not the same Atticus. But I think that most of those detractors have missed one very important point: this novel takes place twenty years later. The 1950’s were the beginning of a great social change in the United States, a change that Jean Louise would have seen in New York but which was slow to come to rural Alabama (and still would be, even ten years later).

Although this is a novel about a young woman growing up, becoming independent, and learning to separate from her father, it is also a novel about a specific time and place in history. As such, it describes the great changes coming to our nation, and the way that those changes were vehemently fought against, especially in the South. It shows the growing tensions between the races and the ardent battle – which carried on for decades – to preserve a way of life in the South.

As for Atticus himself, To Kill a Mockingbird never portrays him as being for racial equality – in fact, the concept of civil rights barely existed yet in the 1930’s, when the novel takes place, and certainly not in the Deep South. Yes, Atticus does defend a black man in the novel’s famous courtroom scene, but my perception was that that was more about standing up for injustice. Atticus saw an innocent man wrongly accused, and he defended him without regard for his skin color because for Atticus, justice and the law were paramount. Remember also, that all of To Kill a Mockingbird was told from the perspective of a young child, a child who worshipped her larger-than-life father.

I won’t spoil the details, but in Go Set a Watchman, Atticus and Jean Louise engage in an in-depth discussion about racial equality and civil rights. Things are different now in Maycomb in the 1950’s than they were twenty years earlier, as they were everywhere. Blacks were no longer keeping to themselves, living in their own section of town and having jobs where they mainly served whites in various capacities. Instead, they were integrating more into general society, asking for equal rights and demanding to be treated fairly. Many southerners saw this as a frightening change. In addition – and more importantly for Atticus – the Supreme Court had gotten involved and was making integration and desegregation federal issues. As you’ll see in this novel, Atticus is a staunch believer in states’ right and was against these federal incursions into what he saw as the domain of the states. Finally, in this novel, Atticus does explain to Jean Louise that his presence during the town meeting does not mean that he agreed with everything that was said by others.

So, is Atticus a racist in Go Set a Watchman? He may be from today’s perspective, but I don’t think it’s a simple question to answer for the time and place that the novel takes place and given his position on states’ rights. After reading the novel, I don’t believe that Lee intended to make him a villain here; I think she was trying to dig into the complexities in the issues, as evidenced by Atticus’ and Scout’s intense debate. I also think she was showing how the times were changing and the gaps between North and South and between the younger generation and the older. I believe she succeeds in showing that these were complex issues at the time, issues that young Jean Louise was struggling with, both internally and with her beloved father and hometown.

Those are my thoughts, and much has been written on these topics in the media. I would love to know what YOU think. If you’ve read Go Set a Watchman, tell me what your take on it was.

 

Tuesday, October 13, 2015

TV Tuesday: The Good Wife and Madam Secretary

This week's TV Tuesday features two powerful women in excellent back-to-back shows on CBS on Sundays (though we never watch anything when it actually airs anymore!): The Good Wife and Madam Secretary.  Both shows are top-notch: smart, funny, and engaging with excellent writing and casts. My husband and I were thrilled to see both shows return for new seasons two weeks ago.

The Good Wife, starring Julianna Margulies as Alicia Florrick, just started its seventh season, and it hasn't lost any steam. At the beginning of season 1, the show began with Alicia's husband, Peter Florrick, former State's Attorney for Cook County (Chicago), going to jail after a sex and corruption scandal that rocked the city and left Alicia in the spotlight. Publicly, she literally stands by her man in the press conferences, but behind the scenes, she is furious with him for cheating on her - and in such a lurid, public way (he was caught repeatedly with prostitutes). Alicia works hard to protect her two teen children from the media and her husband's scandal. With Peter in jail, Alicia has to go back to work, after 15 years as a stay-at-home mom. She gets a job with a prestigious law firm - Stern, Lockhart & Gardner - though she must start out as an Associate, along with a lot of younger lawyers just out of law school. Will Gardner, one of the firm's partners, was a classmate of hers back in law school, and it seems they might have been more than friends back then.

I won't go into much of the details beyond that starting point, because this show is filled with wonderful plot twists that we never saw coming. Alicia builds her new career, while juggling motherhood, and Peter eventually gets out of jail and resumes his politic career (this is America, after all). I loved Julianna Margulies in ER in the old days, and she is absolutely spectacular as Alicia and has won an Emmy and a Golden Globe for this role. The rest of the cast is just as good, with Chris Noth as the charismatic Peter, and Christine Baranski as Diane Lockhart (another of the firm's partners). Alan Cumming is one of our favorites as Eli Gold, Peter's campaign manager, as is Archie Panjabi as the sexy, mysterious investigator Kalinda Sharma. We were late to this show, finally listening to all the rave reviews from friends and family one summer, when we got the DVDs from the library and binge-watched 3 seasons in a row! You can watch the early seasons free on Amazon Prime or Netflix, and the latest season (2 episodes so far) is available On Demand and on the CBS website (seasons 1 and 7).

As if that wasn't enough, last year CBS also added Madam Secretary to its line-up, and we were soon hooked on that show as well. Tea Leoni stars as Elizabeth McCord, a former CIA operative who is named Secretary of State by the President, who is a former colleague of hers. Right from her first day, it is obvious that Elizabeth is going to do things her way, as her staff, headed by Bebe Neuwirth, rushes to adjust to her open, straight-forward approach. Each episode tackles a new international crisis of some sort - everything from hostages to informants to potential war - which keeps the plots fresh and interesting. If you could find any criticism with the show, it would be that they always manage to solve major world crises in an hour-long show, but we find it easy enough to just go along for the ride because it is so much fun.

At home, Elizabeth is married to World Religions scholar Henry McCord, played by Tim Daly, and they have three children ranging from young teens to young adult. In addition to her constantly changing duties as Secretary of State, Elizabeth must also juggle whatever crises come up with her family. The entire cast here - from Elizabeth's staff to her family and beyond - are all excellent and great fun to watch. There is a lot of chemistry between her staff members and plenty of humor, too, throughout the show. Tea Leoni has always been one of my favorite actresses - she was great in movies like House of D, The Family Man, and Ghost Town, and her crying scene in Spanglish is one of my all-time favorites! She's wonderful in Madam Secretary, as is Tim Daly, and the script is clever, suspenseful, and funny. You can catch up on Season 1 on Netflix or on Amazon Prime (though not free there), and season 2 is currently available On Demand and on the CBS website.


 

Monday, October 12, 2015

Movie Monday: The Life Before Her Eyes

I had a chance last week to watch another Sue-movie (i.e. not action or thriller!) while my husband was golfing, and I chose The Life Before Her Eyes, a haunting movie about friendship and tragedy, available free on Amazon Prime.


The movie opens showing the beginning of a friendship between two very different high school girls, Maureen and Diana. Maureen, a shy, unassuming girl, comes from a religious family and is involved with her church. In contrast, Diana is loud and brash, dresses provocatively, smokes pot, and has sex with inappropriate young men. Her mother is the high school's gym teacher, but she spends a lot of time away from home, leaving Diana on her own. Despite their differences, the two girls bond and become close, two misfits who find each other. Quite early in the film, though, we see a tragedy hit their high school when a boy they know goes on a shooting spree. He comes to the girls' bathroom where Diana and Maureen are hiding and tells them he will kill one of them...but we don't know what happens next.

At that point, the film shifts forward in time. Diana is an adult now, played by Uma Thurman, married to Paul, with a young daughter named Emma. She seems to be living a good life - in a lovely house, teaching art history, and happy with her family - but she is still haunted by the school shooting. From there, the movie follows Diana's current life, with frequent flashbacks to her high school years and her friendship with Maureen. I was a little confused by the movie's ending at first but soon figured it out.

Obviously, since it is focused on a horrific school shooting, this is a dark, sometimes disturbing movie (if you need further proof, it was directed by Vadim Perelman, who also directed The House of Sand and Fog, the most depressing movie my husband and I have ever seen!). It's not all depressing, though - the scenes of Maureen and Diana's growing friendship in high school are warm and poignant, though filled with a sense of foreboding because you know from the beginning that something terrible is coming. It's interesting, though chilling, to see the girls occasionally interact with the boy who will become the shooter. Seeing past and present twisted together makes this a very thoughtful and clever film, though it is a somber, tragic story. The movie was based on the novel by Laura Kasischke.

Have you seen any good movies lately?

It's Monday 10/12! What Are You Reading?


Busy weekend, but now I am enjoying the sound of crickets and birds out on my peaceful back deck. I have to admit I like the quiet & peace of a Monday morning, even if I do have a million things to do this week - new week, fresh start! I've still been struggling with my health issues, though I think making progress a bit at a time. For some reason, I seem to always feel the worst on weekends, which kinda sucks. But, hey, here it is a new week!

Our family enjoyed some great books this past week:
  • I finished my first review book for Publisher's Weekly, A Paper Son by Jason Buchholz, a novel that goes back and forth between a present-day elementary teacher in San Francisco and the story of a family who moved back to China in 1925, with some supernatural elements linking the two stories. I really enjoyed it - the story and the writing pulled me right in. I'm working on my review now - look for the novel's release in January 2016.
  • Now I am reading The Three by Sarah Lotz for  my R.I.P. X Challenge - I gave it to my husband last year and am glad to finally be getting to it. It's the story of 4 simultaneous plane crashes that left only 3 children as survivors. Very compelling so far.
  • I've been listening to a teen/YA audiobook, The Cemetery Boys by Heather (Zac) Brewer, and really enjoying it. It combines an engaging, realistic story about a teen boy struggling with major changes in his life with some supernatural creepiness - a  perfect fit for October and my R.I.P. X Challenge!
  • My husband, Ken, finished The English Girl by Daniel Silva, the first Silva novel he's ever read, and said he enjoyed it.
  • Now, Ken is back to reading The Name of the Wind by Patrick Rothfuss (recommended by our son). I just read last week that this book is being made into a movie AND a TV show
  • Jamie, 21, is still reading The Blood King by Gail Z. Martin, book 2 in the Chronicles of the Necromancer series, another epic fantasy series. He really enjoyed book 1, The Summoner, so he is looking forward to the rest of the series.
 I'm doing better at getting back into my normal writing/blogging routines. Here's what I posted last week:
Movie Monday: The Cake Eaters, starring Kristen Stewart and Bruce Dern

TV Tuesday: How to Get Away with Murder, one of our favorites, back for season 2!

Middle-grade Review: Ghost Hawk by Susan Cooper, historical fiction crossed with a (friendly) ghost story - I loved it!

Nonfiction Review: How to Wake Up: A Buddhist-Inspired Guide to Navigating Joy and Sorrow by Toni Bernhard

As you can see, I have added weekly reviews of TV shows and movies to my blog recently, so if like me, you also enjoy TV shows and movies as well as books, check out all of my media reviews!

What are you and your family reading this week?    

What Are You Reading Monday is hosted by Sheila at Book Journey, with a kid/teen version hosted by Unleashing Readers
 
   

Thursday, October 08, 2015

Nonfiction Review: How To Wake Up


Author Toni Bernhard is a good friend of mine. She and I share the same chronic illness and, even though we’ve never met in person, we’ve gotten to know each other well in the virtual world over the past twelve years. Her first book, How To Be Sick, was an inspiring guide about applying the principles of Buddhism to a life of chronic illness in order to find more peace and joy in your life. Her second book, How To Wake Up: A Buddhist-Inspired Guide to Navigating Joy and Sorrow, is not just for those who are ill but for anyone who faces challenges and wants to make the most of his or her life – oh, that’s everyone!

Once again, Toni applies the tenets of Buddhism to modern life in an accessible way, so that anyone can live a life more filled with peace and acceptance. She begins with some of the basics of Buddhism: that all lives contain unlimited joys and unlimited sorrows, that life is constantly changing, and that even people themselves are constantly shifting and changing. Toni explains how learning these basic truths about life – and truly accepting them – can lead to a more peaceful, happier life. Yes, accepting that life is filled with difficult experiences can help you to be happier. As she quotes in her book, the Tibetan Buddhist teacher Pema Chödrön said, “Hell is just resistance to life” (I like that one!)

Then, she describes in detail just how to go about “waking up” to a more resilient, peaceful life. In separate chapters, she covers topics like mindfulness, kindness, compassion, and more, as well as obstacles to wellness, like dissatisfaction, anger, and worry. In every instance, Toni explains these concepts in easy-to-understand ways and applies them to our modern lives, using examples from her own life and from her friends and family. She also provides simple approaches for putting the principles into action.

I tabbed so many pages in my copy of the book that it’s hard to choose a single quote to share with you! With some concepts, I felt like I already had a good handle on them – living with chronic illness just naturally teaches you that suffering is a part of life, to accept what happens, and to find joy in small moments, for instance. Other sections – like mindfulness (I am a devoted multi-tasker!) or anger – really spoke to me because of particular issues I am dealing with or difficulties I have with certain people. Reading her sections on acceptance really helped me last month while I was enduring a lengthy and difficult period of infirmity.

In this brief passage, Toni introduces the concept of judging and why it hampers a life of peace:
“Judging is an obstacle to waking up because it’s hard to engage life as an awakened being – with kindness and friendliness, compassion, appreciative joy, and equanimity – if we’re always adding likes and dislikes, shoulds and shouldn’ts to our bare experience.”
She then goes on to explain exactly how judging creeps into our lives, often without our even realizing it, and practical, simple ways to overcome this bad habit. She does the same with each of the principles that she introduces.

This is a book for everyone. Toni does a wonderful job of explaining Buddhist principles in a simple, accessible way and provides ample examples of how to put them into practice in your own life. She has obviously worked hard over the course of many years to apply these concepts to her own life, and she uses her considerable talents as a writer to bring the reader along on that journey. How to Wake Up feels like having a good friend by your side, helping you to deal with your challenges and appreciate the joys in your life.

Toni has just this week published a third book, How to Live Well with Chronic Pain and Illness: A Mindful Guide, that I will be reading next and reviewing next month.

211 pages, Wisdom Publications
 

Disclosure: I received this book from the publisher in return for an honest review. My review is my own opinion and is not influenced by my relationship with the publisher or author.

 

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Wednesday, October 07, 2015

Middle-Grade/Teen Review: Ghost Hawk


My son is a huge fan of Susan Cooper’s The Dark is Rising series, so I was eager to read her stand-alone novel, Ghost Hawk. Unfortunately, it sat on my shelf for far over a year, but I finally made time for it last month when I was sick and looking for engaging middle-grade novels to read. This cross of historical fiction and a (friendly) ghost story fit the bill perfectly and also fit my R.I.P. X Challenge.

In 1620, Little Hawk is the son of the Chief in his Wampanoag tribe in Massachusetts. They live a quiet life there, but excitement is coming for Little Hawk, as he prepares for his manhood test. He and the other boys his age in the village are each sent out into the wilderness on their own. Little Hawk must survive for three months on his own in complete solitude, with only his bow and arrows, a tomahawk whose blade was used by every generation of his family since his great-grandfather, and an extra-sharp metal knife that his father bartered from the white men who have recently arrived to their land. Little Hawk faces huge challenges, including a terrible blizzard, but he survives and becomes a man.

Meanwhile, a young boy named John Wakeley from the nearby Plymouth village of Puritan settlers meets Little Hawk and the rest of the village when the Wampanoag members teach the new settlers how to fish and plant in this New World. Though they speak different languages, the boys are able to communicate with each other and form a connection. When John is ten years old, he witnesses a horrific act of violence by men from his own village against an Indian, and he is forever changed by that experience, which further cements his connection with Little Hawk. However, as John grows older, he sees that the majority of Puritans do not share his vision of living peacefully side by side with the Wampanoag; most of his fellow citizens, in Plymouth and beyond, see the Indian tribes as savages to be conquered because their ways of life are different and they do not share the Puritan’s religious beliefs.

Although there is a supernatural element to this riveting story, it is clear that it is also based strongly on historical fact (Cooper’s notes at the back support this). Her descriptions of the daily lives of both the Wampanoag and the Puritans are detailed and fascinating and would make a compelling narrative even without the ghostly presence in the story, though that adds an extra element of intrigue. This is not the typical simplistic grade school portrayal of the Pilgrims and their first feast with their Indian friends but an eyes-wide-open account of religious intolerance by those who were themselves escaping religious persecution. It is not a one-sided story – Cooper makes it clear that the Native tribes were often warring among themselves long before the Puritans arrived – but still, the weight of how the Europeans decimated the Native Americans is truly sobering.

Beyond the history, this is a compelling story of two young people from entirely different worlds who form a friendship that lasts a lifetime. I was looking for something light and easy to read while sick, since I was having trouble concentrating on my grown-up books, but what I found was so much more: a novel that completely captivated me from beginning to end and left me thinking about it for weeks afterward. It is a gripping story not easily forgotten.

328 pages, Margaret K. McElderberry Books, an imprint of Simon & Schuster

Kids (and adults!) who enjoy Ghost Hawk might also like The Thirteenth Child, the beginning of a trilogy that also combines historical fiction and fantasy. Adult readers might enjoy Caleb's Crossing by Geraldine Brooks, an excellent historical novel that also deals with the Wampanoag tribe's interactions with white settlers, a bit later in time.

Tuesday, October 06, 2015

TV Tuesday: How To Get Away With Murder

One of our favorite TV shows from last year is back for its second season: How To Get Away With Murder. To give you an idea of how good this show is, our 17-year old son will not watch any TV with us, other than a few half-hour comedies...but he is hooked on this one! He actually sits down with us for an hour each week to see what happens next. It is a show filled with suspense and intrigue, and Viola Davis recently won a Best Drama Series Actress Emmy for her leading role.

On the show, Davis plays Annalise Keating, a law school professor and high-powered defense attorney with a kick-ass attitude. Each year, she chooses five of her law students to assist her in her practice with real cases. She selects those students at the beginning of season one, and they are a diverse group, all ambitious but each with his or her own quirks and secrets. Annalise is also assisted by two lawyers in her practice, Frank and Bonnie (played by Liza Weil, who played Paris on The Gilmore Girls, another current favorite show of mine!). The three lawyers and five law students tackle a variety of cases, all having to do with murder, while Annalise lectures to her Criminal Law class about...you guessed it - how to get away with murder, as a way of teaching them how to be great defense lawyers.

But that's not all. Right from the very first episode, we see that a murder has taken place that involves Annalise and her students. In those first episodes, scenes alternate back and forth between classes and cases and one very frightening night when the five students are trying to cover up a murder and get rid of a body. It takes a while (in fact, the entire first season!) for all of the pieces to fall into place so that the viewers fully understand what happened and who the murderer(s) are, but we were hooked from that very first episode.

But that's not all! So far, two episodes into the second season, there have been a total of 3 murders (so far) committed by various people on Annalise's team! Yup, this is one screwed-up group of people. Meanwhile, amidst all this murder, investigations, and cover-ups, the team keeps trying to act normal, go to classes, and try other cases. Oh, and of course, there is a lot of sex - it seems everyone is getting involved with ill-conceived relationships. Davis is not the only actor on the show worthy of accolades - it is an excellent ensemble cast, and the show is produced by Shonda Rimes, creator of Scandal and Grey's Anatomy.

The rapid-fire way the show is filmed is unique for television, as is its super fast pace. Scandal piles upon scandal, murder piles upon murder. The continuing puzzles in the show - both the ongoing issues among the team and the cases they try - are addictively compelling. You will guess who the murderer is over and over...and probably be wrong every time. If you enjoy reading mysteries and thrillers, you will love this show, though don't expect too many endearing characters!

What favorite TV shows of yours are back for a new season?

NOTE: The second season of How To Get Away With Murder is airing now and available On Demand and on Hulu. Both seasons are available on Netflix, and Season 1 is currently available for the odd price of $0.67 an episode on Amazon Prime.

Monday, October 05, 2015

Movie Monday: The Cake Eaters

While my husband was out golfing one evening last week, I indulged in a Sue-movie, i.e. one with no action, car chases, or shooting. This is a rarity for me, with three men in the house usually choosing our movies!

I watched The Cake Eaters (free on Amazon Prime), a different kind of coming-of-age story, wrapped up with a family's struggle with grief. Kristen Stewart plays Georgia, a high school student struggling with Friedreich's Ataxia, a progressive neurological disorder that is very disabling. Georgia manages pretty well in spite of her disabilities; she is a good student and loves to spend time with her quirky, independent grandmother, Marg, played by Elizabeth Ashley. As the film opens, Georgia is escaping from her overprotective mother to spend a day at the flea market with Marg, selling haunting and beautiful black and white portraits her mother has taken of her, to help bring attention to the disease.

At the flea market, they meet Beagle and his dad, played by Aaron Stanford and Bruce Dern, respectively. They are grieving over the loss of Beagle's mother, after a long and difficult illness. Beagle is a young man unsure what to do with his life, now that his mother is gone, because he was totally focused on taking care of her. Now, he works at the high school cafeteria and dabbles in painting. His dad knows Marg and introduces him, and Beagle is immediately drawn to Georgia and not scared off by her disabilities. Soon after, Beagle's older brother, Guy (played by Jayce Bartok), shows up unexpectedly, after being away for three years.

As the three men try to figure out how to get along together and move forward, Beagle and Georgia get closer. Georgia's grandmother urges her to go slowly with Beagle, but Georgia tells her she doesn't have time to wait. The three men struggle with their relationship, secrets are revealed, and Georgia moves forward with her plan to experience all life has to offer before it is too late, despite her mother's attempts to protect her. All of the actors did a great job in these emotional roles, though Stewart was especially convincing in her portrayal of a young woman with a crippling disease. I really enjoyed this intense, coming-of-age family drama that looks at life with chronic illness, a topic not often touched upon in movies. Despite that subject matter, the movie is not depressing but rather focuses on life, love, and moving forward.

Have you seen any good movies lately?

It's Monday 10/5! What Are You Reading?


October already? I''m feeling a bit like Rip Van Winkle after being so sick and housebound for the past 6 weeks. I am finally improving, bit by bit, but I'm not yet back to my "normal" baseline (normal for me). Yesterday was my husband's birthday, so I am a bit worn out today (even though it was mostly a quiet day!), but I am looking forward to a new week - the rain and wind have passed by, the sun is out again, and I am hoping to continue to feel better.

Here's what we were all reading last week:
  • I am still reading my first review book for Publisher's Weekly, A Paper Son by Jason Buchholz, a novel that goes back and forth between a present-day elementary teacher in San Francisco and the story of a family who moved back to China in 1925, with some supernatural elements linking the two stories. I'm really enjoying it so far - the story and the writing pulled me right in, and I hate to set it down!
  • I never did get started on a new teen/YA audiobook, The Cemetery Boys by Heather (Zac) Brewer last week, but I am downloading it to my iPod as I type this, so I will start it today. It sounds like a perfect fit for October and my R.I.P. X Challenge.
  •  My husband, Ken, once again swapped books this week. He set aside The Name of the Wind by Patrick Rothfuss (recommended by our son) temporarily because we got him a library copy of The English Girl by Daniel Silva which he left on a plane last week! Now he can find out how it ends. You need closure, right?
  • Jamie, 21, finished Valour by John Gwynne, Book 2 of The Faithful and the Fallen series - he enjoys this fantasy series.
  • Now, Jamie is reading The Blood King by Gail Z. Martin, book 2 in the Chronicles of the Necromancer series, another epic fantasy series. He really enjoyed book 1, The Summoner, so he is looking forward to the rest of the series.
I finally did some catching-up on the blog last week and posted 3 reviews (though it took me until Saturday night!) and some other fun posts as well, including a lot for Banned Books Week:
Movie Monday: The Words starring Bradley Cooper

Banned Books Week 2015

TV Tuesday: Mr. Robot, twisty & suspenseful, about hackers & conspiracies

Review of Persepolis by Marjane Satrapi, a graphic memoir about growing up during the Iranian Revolution and one of the most frequently banned books.

Review of Looking for Alaska by John Green, an award-winning teen/YA novel and another frequently banned book.

Saturday Snapshot - photos from my back deck and my anniversary

Review of If the Oceans Were Ink by Carla Power, a nonfiction book about one woman's quest to learn more about the Quran
As you can see, I have added weekly reviews of TV shows and movies to my blog recently, so if like me, you also enjoy TV shows and movies as well as books, check out all of my media reviews!

What are you and your family reading this week?    

What Are You Reading Monday is hosted by Sheila at Book Journey, with a kid/teen version hosted by Unleashing Readers
 
   

Saturday, October 03, 2015

Nonfiction Review: If the Oceans Were Ink


My neighborhood book group read If the Oceans Were Ink: An Unlikely Friendship and a Journey to the Heart of the Quran by Carla Power this month. Although I missed the discussion, I enjoyed the interesting and informative book, which was just nominated for the National Book Award for nonfiction.

Power is a half-Jewish (though non-practicing) journalist who spent much of her childhood in countries in the Middle East and Asia with large Muslim populations, as her father often took visiting professorships in other countries. She grew up surrounded by the culture of Islam and as an adult, often reported on Muslims in her job. She decided, though, that she wanted to know more about the source of Islam, the Quran, and whether it really supported some of the extremist views evident in the world today. For that education, she turned to an old colleague and friend, Sheik Mohammad Akram Nadwi, an Islam scholar whom she used to work with at the Oxford Centre for Islamic Studies, often called just “the Sheik”.

The title of the book is taken from these verses from the Quran itself:
“Say, even if the ocean were ink
For (writing) the words of my Lord,
The ocean would be exhausted
Before the words of my Lord were exhausted,
Even if We were to add another ocean to it. (Chapter 18, Verse 109)”

Part of Power’s interest was in figuring out how such widely varied groups and people around the world – from terrorists to pious mullahs seeking peace and ordinary Muslims living their lives – could all claim to be living according to the Quran. She and the Sheik embarked on a yearlong journey together, debating the meaning of various verses in the Quran, discussing how those verses are interpreted by different groups around the world, and even delving into controversial subjects like the role of women in Islam. At the same time, the Sheik introduced her to his family, his friends, and his students, so she met and had the opportunity to talk to many Muslims with different perspectives.

Much of what she learned will be surprising to Westerners who believe in the view of Islam that terrorists have tried to spread. It’s only the extremists (on both sides) who make the news and rail loudly about the chasm between “the Muslim world” and the Western world. But there are Muslims living all over the world, including in the United States, and you can’t really lump them all together. She and the Sheik look at how Judaism, Christianity, and Islam fit together, as well as what their differences are. Much of their differences simply come down to the perspectives of different prophets, though they all study Abraham, Mary, Noah, Moses, and even Jesus. As the Sheik sums up beautifully, “God wanted to be fair with everybody. He’s sent different messengers, but the real differences are just about language, or culture, or history. The main message is the same: to believe in God.”

That is a theme that threads throughout the book – that there is a difference between religion and culture. According to the Sheik, much of what we Westerners think of as tenets of Islam are actually cultural rules or norms set down and carried through history, not parts of the Quran itself. As with the Bible, different people throughout history (including modern times) have interpreted the Quran and its related hadiths (rules) in vastly different ways. The situation is even more complex with the Quran because it was written in Arabic and can be translated into English in different ways. As for women in Islam, the Sheik has been working on a project to write about women Islamic scholars – it began as a pamphlet and ended up as dozens of volumes of books – so he has a broad view of women’s roles in the religion, both in history and now.

When my book group chose this book, I was afraid it would be dry and dull, a slog to get through, but it isn’t like that at all. The book is a memoir of Power’s year spent learning about the Quran with the Sheik, so it incorporates her own life and experiences, as well as his. I was particularly moved by her experiences in losing her father and her mother, since my own dad died this summer. This is not a dry analysis of the Quran but a look at how the holy book translates into every day life.

As you can probably tell from this lengthy review, I found Power’s book fascinating and informative. I was very sorry I couldn’t make my book group discussion because this book just begs to be talked about! There is so much content here, and all of it is thoughtful and thought-provoking, as the reader goes along with Power on her yearlong educational journey. As she works to understand another person and his religion and way of life, she learns more about her own life and brings us along for the eye-opening ride. The world would be a better – far more peaceful – place if we all took the time to understand those who are different from us.

300 pages, Henry Holt & Company

NOTE: I posted this review this week to accompany my review of Persepolis by Marjane Satrapi, a graphic memoir about growing up during the Iranian Revolution - the two books complemented each other and each helped me to better understand the other. 



Saturday Snapshot 10/3


Saturday Snapshot is hosted by West Metro Mommy Reads. 

Thought I'd get back to Saturday Snapshot today, although I am still sick and still not leaving the house much...so nothing too exciting! A few more pictures from my back deck today, plus two from our 26th anniversary - we did get to enjoy a nice dinner out! The first two photos (click to enlarge) have a cool story behind them - one morning this week, there were two twin woodpeckers hanging out on my deck, pecking on the wooden rails. Unfortunately, every time I went outside, they got spooked and flew off! So, the first pic is the only one I grabbed of one of them on the deck and the second is when he flew to the metal downspout (didn't have much luck pecking there!):


Woodpecker on our deck
Woodpecker on the downspout

My favorite spot on the deck

Did my nails in my favorite color!

Ready for a nice dinner out for our 26th anniversary

Hope you are enjoying a nice weekend and staying dry! Rainy and very windy here, as Joaquin passes by.

Thursday, October 01, 2015

Teen/YA Review: Looking for Alaska


I’ve wanted to read Looking for Alaska, John Green’s first and one of his best-known novels, for many years, so when I saw it was #7 on the ALA’s list of Most Frequently BannedBooks for 2013, I chose to read it this week in honor of Banned Books Week. I absolutely loved this funny novel about serious topics.

Miles has no friends at his public school in Florida, so he begs his parents to let him attend his father’s alma mater, Culver Creek Boarding School, in Alabama. He hopes that he can make the same kind of happy memories of friends, mischief, and pranks that his dad fondly recalls from his days there. Miles loves to read biographies and collects last words, and he wants what poet Francois Rabelais described as “The Great Perhaps,” a life not quite so safe and boring as the one he has led so far.

Miles’ new roommate, Chip (who says to call him The Colonel), immediately christens Miles “Pudge,” an ironic nickname since Miles is so scrawny he can barely keep his shorts up, and pulls him into his group of friends. Those friends include Takumi, an Asian boy who is a hip-hop enthusiast, and Alaska Young. Pudge is immediately attracted to the wild, passionate, unpredictable Alaska, though she has a serious boyfriend away at college. The four friends settle into routines with classes, rotten food in the cafeteria (including the hilariously named Buffritos), and sneaking away to smoke cigarettes. A Romanian girl named Lara joins their group. With them, over the course of his first semester, Pudge has his first cigarette, his first drink of alcohol, his first kiss, and experiences his first school pranks, an age-old tradition and full-time occupation at Culver Creek.

Interested in Pudge’s obsession with last words, Alaska is particularly fascinated with the same one that is Pudge’s favorite: Simon Bolivar saying, “How will I ever get out of this labyrinth?” They puzzle over what he meant, as Pudge becomes interested in his World Religions class and the similar philosophical questions they tackle there. The group of friends, led by The Colonel and Alaska, plans their biggest prank ever, which works beautifully and leads to big celebrations. All of this fun comes to an abrupt end when tragedy strikes unexpectedly at Culver Creek.

In the first half of the novel, the chapters are labeled X Days Before, with the number slowly counting down. This creates a lot of suspense, as readers wonder what Miles is counting down to. Once they find out, the remaining chapters are titled X Days After. So, you know right from page 1 that something big is going to happen, but you don’t know what.

This is a coming-of-age novel, as Miles (aka Pudge) not only tries new things, enjoys his first real friendships, and falls in love but also deals with very serious issues of the type that every person will have to deal with at some point in his or her life. That is the true brilliance of John Green novels, isn’t it? He can have you laughing out loud on one page (and I laughed a LOT) and contemplating life’s most complex and solemn concepts on the next. I listened to this novel on audio and absolutely loved the audio production – narrator Jeff Woodman had those Alabama accents just right, and I was often laughing (and probably looking foolish!) with my earbuds hanging out of my ears!

If you’ve never read a John Green novel, what are you waiting for? He perfectly captures the experience of being a teen, agonizing over everything from homework assignments to the meaning of life and everything in between. His novels are emotionally powerful, thoughtful, and always filled with plenty of laughs. And that’s life, isn’t it? Ups and downs, laughing and crying, uncertainty and experiencing the “Great Perhaps.” I loved every moment of this moving, funny, and contemplative novel and can’t wait to see the movie (currently in pre-production).

Brilliance Audio

221 pages, Speak (in paperback)


Why Has It Been Banned: Looking for Alaska was #7 on the ALA’s list of Most FrequentlyBanned Books in 2013 and is likely to appear on the list again this year or next, as the movie production moves forward (the book has already begun climbing back up the best-seller list). According to the ALA, it has been banned for: “Drugs/alcohol/smoking, sexually explicit, unsuited to age group.” Well, yeah, that pretty much covers it (other than the last item). It does contain all of those things, but I don’t agree it’s unsuitable for teens. I think most older teens have experimented with (or at least wondered about) all of those things – I know I did at that age – and it doesn’t make sense to keep them from reading a book that delves so deeply into the meaning of life and other important issues that teens are also thinking about. Teens should see characters like themselves in books. And let's face it: if a teen isn't drinking or smoking or having sex yet, then reading about it in a novel isn't going to suddenly transform him or her into a delinquent - reading isn't going to change their core values. As I explained in my Banned Books Week intro post, I believe it is perfectly reasonable for parents to decide what their kids are mature enough for (though I think by the age of older teens, even censorship by parents becomes counter-productive) but not OK for others to decide that a book should be kept from an entire community. I have seen teachers’ comments about this book that they loved it and think it would be great for older teens but that their schools would never allow it. That’s a shame because John Green helps teens think about and work through some really important issues.