Monday, May 05, 2025

It's Monday, May 5! What Are You Reading?

Hosted by The Book Date

 

Life

Happy Cinco de Mayo! How on earth is it May already?? When you go away for a full month, it really makes the time speed by! And I went away again this weekend. Last night, I just returned home from Booktopia, my annual pilgrimage with my Mom to the fabulous Northshire Bookstore in beautiful Manchester, Vermont. Booktopia is a unique bookish weekend where authors and readers hang out together, talk books, eat meals together, and play book trivia! Every year--including this one--we hear the invited authors say in wonder, "This is unlike any other book event I have ever attended!" Part of that is the intimate, interactive environment between readers and authors, and part of it is the warmth and camaraderie of the attendees, many of whom--like my mom and I--return year after year. This was our 8th year attending. But newbies are always welcome, too, and soon have dozens of new friends!

Here's a quick overview with photos of the weekend. There were about 80 attendees and 9 authors (plus a bonus author event on Sunday). Tomorrow, I will be editing my annual Booktopia Vlog, with video clips of the booksellers recommending books, the authors talking about their books and answering questions, the lovely town, the amazing bookstore, and much more. Check my YouTube channel tomorrow evening for that (and I will link it here on the blog next week).

The weekend begins Friday morning with "This Gift Card Is Burning a Hole in My Pocket." Every attendee's registration fee includes a $50 gift card for the bookstore, and the wonderful Northshire booksellers (many of them have been there for all 15 or so years of Booktopia!) each recommend 5-6 books they've loved. You can see a few of those recommendations here:


After a lunch break (there are lots of great restaurants and cafes nearby), the author sessions begin. This year used a slightly different format: one of the booksellers interviewing an author or two authors paired together because their books share some common thread. These sessions are very interactive, and if the book is already out, then many of the attendees have read it, so you get some really interesting discussions and Q&A's. For the next day and a half, we each chose which author sessions we wanted to attend. There were 9 authors, so with the pairings, you could see all of them. Alas, I need an afternoon nap, but I still got to three sessions, each with two authors.

Here is Nicole, a co-owner of the bookstore, interviewing authors Shubha Sunder, Optional Practical Training, and Jennifer Haigh, Rabbit Moon (links to mini reviews in past Monday posts of both books). I have been a fan of Jennifer's (we're on a first name basis now lol) novels since 2007, so I was really fangirl-ing to meet her and talk to her about her books!

 


Friday evening is a really fun gathering for cocktails, dinner, and book trivia! The booksellers and authors are at the tables with the readers/attendees, so it's a chance to get to know them better. Here's our table--the victorious winners of book trivia! One of our team has twin toddlers at home, and a bonus question was to name the 17 items in Goodnight Moon that they say goodnight to. She easily named 16 of them! Our team name was "We're Gonna Dewey Decimate You," and the guy in the center of the photo is author Stuart Nadler:


Midday on Saturday was an event with all nine of the authors, where they each have 10 minutes to read an excerpt of their book (or something else they wrote) or talk about whatever they want.

Finally, after more author sessions, there is an optional Yankee Book Swap. We were pretty wiped out by then, but we enjoyed a nice dinner out with some old friends and some new friends! The four other women at this table with my mom and I all live here in Delaware.

 

It was another outstanding Booktopia weekend! And after a long day of driving yesterday, I am in surprisingly good shape today. I can't wait until next year!

 


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On Video

 Books and Art Tag - A Booktube friend in Italy created this tag to celebrate her 1st anniversary on Booktube. It's a really fun one that pairs 8 famous paintings with prompts for books. I chose favorite books for each of the prompts and enjoyed doing it!

Friday Reads 5-2-25: Ready for Booktopia! - Hear more about some of the books I read for Booktopia.

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 What We're Reading


I finished reading Animal Instinct by Amy Shearn for Booktopia. It's early 2020, and Rachel is going through a divorce ... and a global pandemic. Living on her own for the first time in her life, isolated by the pandemic, and finally out from under her ex-husband's overbearing nature, Rachel is trying to rediscover who she is. She adores her three children, who alternate their time between her new apartment and their old one, but when she's alone, she's exploring her newfound freedom. There is plenty of emotional depth to this novel, but Rachel's awakening is also sexual, as she tries the dating apps, has a wide range of sex with a wide range of people, and uses her coding skills to create a "perfect person" app. This novel is not everyone's cup of tea--some find it too graphic--but I really enjoyed it and was rooting for Rachel to heal, find herself, and explore her newfound independence. It's also a very thoughtful exploration of pandemic life. 


Now I am reading Rooms for Vanishing by Stuart Nadler (the author who sat at our table for dinner at Booktopia). I'm not even 100 pages into it yet (not much reading time this weekend, ironically!). It's an unusual look at a Jewish family, the Aldermans, in Vienna that was separated by WWII. Supposedly, they were each killed during the war, but the novel is an alternate history of what happened to each of them. Daughter Sonja is grown up and living in London, where she was evacuated to during the war as a child, with her conductor husband, who's just gone missing. Mom Fania is living in Montreal, talking with another survivor, after fruitlessly searching for her family after the war. Moses, who was just six months old when he was torn from his mother's arms, is an adult now, followed by the ghost of his best friend. And Arnold, the father, has a sudden hope that his daughter may have survived after he receives a call from an Englishwoman. It's a bit confusing because you're not sure what's real and what's imagined or in this alternate world. I read one review where the reviewer flat out stated that they all died, and this was just an imagining, but the official description of the book leaves it more open than that: "A prismatic mind-bending epic about the splintering of a family into different worlds." It's very well-written, and I'm enjoying it so far.

 

I finished listening to The Cemetery of Untold Stories by Julia Alvarez, another Booktopia selection (the special Sunday guest) and a very unusual novel. Alma is a successful novelist living in Vermont, but she has many, many stories that she tried to write but just couldn't finish ... yet those stories and characters haunt her. When she moves back to the Dominican Republic and inherits a small plot of land there, Alma--with the help of a local artist--turns it into a cemetery for her unfinished stories and buries her old manuscripts. But the stories and characters refuse to die. They begin to talk back to her and to Filomena, a local woman hired as a groundskeeper and even to each other. I sometimes struggle with magical realism, but I really enjoyed this novel, especially on audio. I loved the way the different characters' stories gradually came together.

 

On the way home yesterday, I binged a solid three hours of Sandwich by Catherine Newman, which I've been skipping on Libby for months now every time my name came up! I'm so glad I finally have the chance to listen to it. Rachel, who everyone calls Rocky, is a middle-aged mom of adult children going through a very difficult menopause. She and her husband, Nick, and their two twenty-something kids (plus one girlfriend) are at the cottage on Cape Cod that they have rented every summer for 20 years. Rocky's aging parents join them for the last few days. It's set in Sandwich, Mass, and is about the "sandwich generation," which I can definitely relate to! Rocky is dealing with her own hormonal struggles, enjoying the company of her adult children, concerned about her marriage, and worried about her parents. Often, something in the present in this very familiar place sends her reminiscing back to the many summer vacations they've spent here, so you gradually learn the family's history. I'm enjoying it so far, and listening for such a bug chunk of time really immersed me in the story and the narrator. 

 

My husband, Ken, is reading another Robert Crais novel that we picked up in a used bookstore on our road trip, Suspect. He's enjoying getting reacquainted with this author.

 

 Our son, 30, is still rereading the Night Angel trilogy by Brent Weeks, an old favorite of his, in preparation for the latest book (Beyond the Shadows). So, he's rereading book 1, The Way of Shadows, and book 2, The Shadow's Way. He was home again this weekend, with his girlfriend, so I was sorry to miss them.

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What Are You Reading Monday is hosted by Kathryn at Book Date, so head over and check out her blog and join the Monday fun! You can also participate in a kid/teen/YA version hosted by Unleashing Readers.

You can follow me on Twitter at @SueBookByBook or on Facebook on my blog's page.
 

 What are you and your family reading this week?

Monday, April 28, 2025

It's Monday 4/28! What Are You Reading?

Hosted by The Book Date

 

Life

 I enjoyed a full week at home for a change! I caught up on work and got back to editing the audio version of my book (a tedious, time-consuming job), and spent some time enjoying the perfect spring weather. I took a short hike at our local nature center Monday. I hadn't been there in months, and it was great to see everything so lush and green and in bloom. The dogwoods and redbuds are in full bloom here now, and the azaleas and lilacs are just starting. 

First convertible day of the year!

Reflections in Red Clay Creek

Our local covered bridge

Virginia bluebells

Redbuds in bloom!
 

Tuesday, I met up with a close friend I hadn't seen since January. We took a hike on a gorgeous day and then went to lunch. We had a lot to catch up on! We saw lots of wildlife, especially birds (some, like the green heron and small blue heron, were spotted through binoculars and were too far off for pictures).

 

Garter snake

Turtle sunning on the bank

I won't tell you how many photos I took of the swans before ...

... we realized they were plastic! ha ha

And this weekend, our oldest son drove down from Long Island to visit! It was the first time we'd seen him since Christmas, and we were all missing each other so much. It was a very relaxing weekend. We took a walk, he and I played backgammon, and we ate lots of delicious meals. His brother joined us on Saturday, so we spent a day with all four of us together, like old times. 💕

A happy sight!

My sons are my game buddies!

So happy to have him home!

This week is a quick, busy one because I leave on Thursday morning for Booktopia!  I'll pick up my mom in Connecticut, then (after a nap) drive us both to Manchester, Vermont, for a fun, bookish weekend, hanging out with authors and other readers. We first attended this unique event in 2015, and this will be our 8th year attending (video of Booktopia 2024). Many of the same people attend every year, and everyone is so excited! 

Newbies are always welcome, and tickets are still available, so if you're in the region, come join us! (and let me know if you do).

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On Video

 6 Bookstores Visited on Our Road Trip: New Orleans, The Woodlands (Houston), and Nashville ... Plus, a Meet-up with Booktube Friends - This brief video includes footage of each of the great 6 indie bookstores we visited on our recent road trip ... including Parnassus! 


Friday Reads 4-25-25: Reading for Booktopia & Listening to Audios - my weekly update of what we've been reading

Enjoying a Road Trip with Chronic Illness - I share a few tips on traveling by car/RV with chronic illness, from our recent road trip.

Preparing for Booktopia - a 1-minute short, showing the books I am reading for Booktopia. I can't wait to meet these authors!

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 What We're Watching

NCIS: Origins - Our family are long-time fans of the many iterations of NCIS. My son and I got into the original NCIS during our long sick days together when he was in high school and college. We watched up to the middle of season 19. Since he moved out in 2020, none of us feels right not watching it together (ha ha), but we will continue the series at some point. We also watched NCIS New Orleans together (all seasons) and loved it just as much (maybe more, set in our favorite city). My reviews of both shows, plus trailers, are here. My husband and I loved NCIS: Hawaii and were very sorry when it ended a couple of years ago. We watched season 1 of NCIS: Sydney and are going to start season 2 soon. NCIS: Origins is something entirely new: the origin story for the original NCIS and the character of Leroy Jethro Gibbs (played in NCIS by Mark Harmon). It's set at Camp Pendelton in California, as Gibbs joins the Navy's Investigative Service back in 1991, as a young man who just lost his wife and daughter in a horrific crime. We're really enjoying it (and Mark Harmon provides some narration).

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 What We're Reading
 

I finished reading Optional Practical Training by Shubha Sunder, a Booktopia selection. The title refers to an extra year of work experience that can be tacked onto a student visa in the U.S., which is what Pavitra is doing as the novel opens. She is just starting her first job, teaching physics at a private high school in Cambridge, Mass. But America high school students expect very different things from their teachers than what Pavitra experienced herself as a student in India. And Pavitra's real goal is to finish writing her novel, something her white-collar parents don't approve of as a career. The novel is written as a series of conversations, with family, friends, her fellow teachers, students, students' parents, and more. It was an interesting approach, a unique way to get to know a character, and I enjoyed it. Can't wait to meet the author later this week!

 

Now, I am reading another Booktopia book, Animal Instinct by Amy Shearn. It's early 2020, and Rachel is going through a divorce ... and a global pandemic. Living on her own for the first time in her life, isolated by the pandemic, and finally out from under her ex-husband's overbearing nature, Rachel is trying to rediscover who she is. She adores her three children, who alternate their time between her new apartment and their old one, but when she's alone, she's exploring her newfound freedom. There is plenty of emotional depth to this novel, but Rachel's awakening is also sexual, as she tries the dating apps, has a wide range of sex with a wide range of people, and uses her coding skills to create a "perfect person" app. This novel is not everyone's cup of tea--some find it too graphic--but I'm enjoying it and am rooting for Rachel to heal, find herself, and explore her newfound independence. It's also a very thoughtful exploration of life during the pandemic.

 

I finished listening to The Grey Wolf by Louise Penny (#19 in her Inspector Gamache series). I read book 1 in the series, Still Life, then skipped ahead to book 15, A Better Man, and have read every book since. As it typical of these later books, this is a complex mystery, here kicked off by an odd series of unusual events in Gamache's personal and professional lives. Gamache and his team soon find themselves looking into a possible terrorist plot that could have disastrous effects for all of Quebec. His core team of himself, son-in-law Jean-Guy, and fellow inspector Isabelle feels that they can only trust each other, which makes their investigation even more difficult ... though no less urgent. The three of them split up and travel near and far, from remote parts of Quebec to Washington, DC to the Vatican in their search for answers and a way to stop this horrific thing from happening. Loaded with suspense, the audio kept me riveted. The story will be continued in The Black Wolf, due out in October.

 

 

Now, I am listening to The Cemetery of Untold Stories by Julia Alvarez, another Booktopia selection and a very unusual novel. Alma is a successful novelist living in Vermont, but she has many, many stories that she tried to write but just couldn't finish ... yet those stories and characters haunt her. When she moves back to the Dominican Republic and inherits a small plot of land there, Alma--with the help of a local artist--turns it into a cemetery for her unfinished stories. But the stories and characters refuse to die. They begin to talk back to her and to Filomena, a local woman hired as a groundskeeper. I sometimes struggle with magical realism, but I'm enjoying the novel so far and am interested to see where it goes.

 

My husband, Ken, finished (just last night) Just Watch Me by Jeff Lindsay, the author of Darkly Dreaming Dexter, which was the basis for the Dexter TV series that we both love. But I think this is the first book either of us has read by Lindsay. This is book 1 in his Riley Wolfe series, about a master thief who targets the wealthiest 0.1% and doesn't hesitate to kill if someone gets in his way. Ken said it was interesting and suspenseful, with intriguing details to some of the capers pulled off, but the main character was extremely arrogant and unlikable. He's not sure if he'll read more of the series or not, but we'd both like to try the Dexter book series by this author.

 

 I finally caught up with our son, 30, during his visit this weekend. I didn't actually miss anything in his reading life! He's been working 6 days a week and enjoying a new Nintendo Switch game his brother gave him, so hasn't had much reading time lately. He is still rereading the Night Angel trilogy by Brent Weeks, an old favorite of his, in preparation for the latest book (Beyond the Shadows). So, he's rereading book 1, The Way of Shadows, and book 2, The Shadow's Way.

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What Are You Reading Monday is hosted by Kathryn at Book Date, so head over and check out her blog and join the Monday fun! You can also participate in a kid/teen/YA version hosted by Unleashing Readers.

You can follow me on Twitter at @SueBookByBook or on Facebook on my blog's page.
 

What are you and your family reading this week?