Wednesday, February 19, 2025

#AllSeasons Link-Up: Winter Hiking in Delaware

I've been looking for some sort of nature photography link-up, and I just discovered #AllSeasons, hosted by Lydia at Where the Wild Things Were (she is also a reader). Details below, if you want to join the fun!

I've been stuck on the couch with a nasty virus for the last week, so for my first post, I thought I'd focus on some short hikes I took before this hit, all taken at our local nature center. These show two sides of a Delaware winter: with a bit of snow and just cold!

Ice and snow in the creeks:




Our iconic covered bridge with snow ...

After some thawing, on a cold blue-sky day:
 

... and without!




 

#Allseasons linky runs from Thursday to Wednesday each week. 

Link one post that shows something seasonal. Traditional weather wise, a seasonal nature marker, or a seasonal celebration. 

Make sure you link back to the  #AllSeasons post at Lydia's blog, Where the Wild Things Were.

Monday, February 17, 2025

It's Monday 2/17! What Are You Reading?

Hosted by The Book Date

 

Life

Last week, I wrote about my "wild" life and getting back to socializing--actually going to a restaurant the previous Friday (the likely culprit) and having two friends over for Superbowl. Well, it seems that my partying lifestyle caught up with me, in spite of masking, and by Monday evening, I was sick. For the past week, I've had actual viral symptoms, which is extremely rare for me. I haven't had a cold or other respiratory virus (other than COVID, which is in a class by itself and I don't make the antibodies against it) in about 20 years! So, this has been puzzling but like any kind of infection with my chronic immune disorder, it is knocking me out. 

Lots of time on the couch - Grey's is my comfort TV!
 

I have no idea how long this will last until I am back to my "normal" (for me) baseline. So, I didn't go anywhere last week and wasn't able to do much, either. I did admire the birds at our feeder and the changing weather out the window.

We rarely see bluebirds at our feeder!

We had a nice quiet Valentine's Day together, with a steak dinner at home, cards, flowers, and gave each other some yummy sugar-free chocolates. 


Happy Valentine's Day!

 
A Valentine we made for the grandparents back in the day!

In spite of still feeling sick, I planned to get started on our tax preparation this weekend. I opened several spreadsheets. I updated them with a bunch of information (checking my numbers vs. my 1099's, etc), and then found I could not save them. Then, Excel wouldn't even let me edit my spreadsheets, locking me out of my own Office software completely. The same thing happened last year on the same date, the anniversary of when I purchased Office two years ago. I spent all of my productive time (limited to begin with) Saturday trying to find solutions online. On Sunday, I finally found a link to a Live Chat option on Microsoft's website ... and spent the next four hours on live chat with three different support people. I finally had to uninstall Office, reinstall it (at which point they tried to update it which caused more issues), and now I can finally use my own software (that I bought outright without a subscription) again, though I lost all the work I did Saturday morning. It was not only frustrating but exhausting, so by last night, I was feeling a lot worse. I'm going to try to rest as much as possible. And I really hate Microsoft (and love Apple Care and the Genius Bar!).

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On Video

 Mardi Gras Readathon - I'm once again participating in this fun bookish event. I included photos from our own Mardi Gras celebrations in New Orleans!

 Friday Reads 2-14-25: Great Books for a Sick Week - my brief weekly update (from the couch this time) of what I am reading and listening to.

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 What We're Reading

 

I am enjoying an excellent Black History Month pick, Deacon King Kong by James McBride (my first by this acclaimed novelist). This is a buddy read with a friend in Singapore; discussing a great book with a friend makes it even greater! The title character, who is known as Sportcoat, is an older Black man living in a housing project in Brooklyn in 1969. He's lost his wife and is drinking heavily, so he's barely aware of what he's doing one day when he grabs an old gun, marches out into their courtyard, and shoots a young drug dealer named Deems, whom he used to coach in the project baseball team. That sets off a chain of events. This is a very entertaining novel, peopled by vibrant, unique characters that often makes me laugh out loud or read outrageous lines to my husband ("Has your cheese done slid off your cracker?"). But beneath the vivid frivolity, McBride is writing about some serious issues of race and class: the effects of drugs, crime, and criminal organizations on neighborhoods; the disparity between poor people of color and wealthy white people; and the way that a neighborhood can become a close-knit community.  I am almost finished now, and it is absolutely fabulous. Highly recommended.

 

 On audio, I have been listening to Swing by Kwame Alexander with Mary Rand Hess, a YA novel. I knew I was in for a treat with this author; I loved listening to Solo, another YA novel in verse, and reading Booked, a middle-grade graphic novel. Walt and Noah are best friends in their junior year of high school. Walt has goals for them this year: to get on the baseball team and to become cool. Neither of these seem within reach, as they didn't make the team again. Noah is in love with the third member of their best friend group, a girl named Sam who is dating Cruz, a baseball player. Sam has been close friends with Noah and Walt since 3rd grade, so Noah is solidly in the friend zone. As their junior year continues, Noah is looking for a way to let Sam know how he feels, as Walt introduces him to jazz and continues to go to the batting cages. This engrossing novel with plenty of depth is wonderful on audio, with bits of jazz between its main parts. 

 

My husband, Ken, is reading Lightless by C.A. Higgins, a sci fi novel that came in a fantasy/sci fi subscription box our son and his girlfriend gave him for Christmas. He's received about 6 books already, with one more box to come, so he has lots of new books to read! He says this one is classic sci fi, with a crew aboard a military spaceship on a mission. One crew member, Althea, forms an emotional bond with the ship's controlling AI, which may be their only hope when terrorists take over their ship.


 Our son, 30, finished Practical Adept, book 17 of the Spellmonger series by Terry Mancour, which he loves! He has now started rereading the Night Angel trilogy by Brent Weeks, an old favorite of his, in preparation for the latest book (Beyond the Shadows). So, he's rereading book 1, The Way of Shadows, and book 2, The Shadow's Way.

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What Are You Reading Monday is hosted by Kathryn at Book Date, so head over and check out her blog and join the Monday fun! You can also participate in a kid/teen/YA version hosted by Unleashing Readers.

You can follow me on Twitter at @SueBookByBook or on Facebook on my blog's page.
 

What are you and your family reading this week?

Monday, February 10, 2025

It's Monday 2/10! What Are You Reading?

Hosted by The Book Date

 

Life

I got a late start this morning after staying up late for the Superbowl last night and seeing our local team, the Philadelphia Eagles, win by a wide margin! Two of our oldest friends in the area came over for our annual watch party, complete with wings and other yummy snacks. The guys are more into football, but we all enjoy watching the ads. Our favorites last night were the Instacart ad with all the iconic brand mascots, the Stella Artois ad with David Beckham and Matt Damon, and especially the Coor's Light ad with all the sloths--that one had us all belly laughing. And, of course, it was fun to catch up with our friends.

 

That was one of two wild nights for me this weekend! We rarely go out or eat in restaurants because I'm immune compromised and have to avoid crowds, but my husband has two friends in a band, Shades of Gray (a reference to their hair, not their kinks!), that were playing at a local restaurant Friday night. They were playing from 5 to 7, and it's a small restaurant, so I decided I could risk it. We were seated not too close to other people and enjoyed a rare evening out, with tasty food and good music. We were out until 7:30! Whoo!


Otherwise, it was a quiet week with more hectic reservation-making for our trips. I had a few low-energy days but still managed some short walks nearby. And we got a few days of "wintry mix"--very common here in Delaware, where we are often on the line between rain and snow. The ice looked pretty and fortunately didn't last long. Three separate snow storms are predicted for this week, so my husband's out on the golf course today, before it gets covered again!

Ice coating the trees

The truck's back-up camera freaked out over the icicles hanging in front of it!

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On Video

January 2025 Reading Wrap-Up: Kicking off the Year with 7 Great Books! - a quick recap of everything I read last month.

Friday Read 2-7-25: Reading for Black History Month - my brief weekly update of what I am reading and listening to.

Read What You Own Challenge: I'm In! - I'm participating in a Booktube challenge to read from my own shelves.

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 What We're Watching

Somebody Somewhere - This show is Just. So. Special. It is full of heart and belly laughs, about a woman who returns to her hometown in Kansas to care for her sick sister and is lost after she dies. She meets someone she went to high school with (but doesn't remember), and the two misfits develop the most incredible friendship. This fabulous show packs so much into its irreverent, moving, hilarious, and twisty story with outstanding writing and acting. We just finished the third and final season and will definitely miss it. I just reread my old review and watched the trailer again (both at the link) and--seriously--I got chills down my spine and tears in my eyes. One of the best TV shows we've ever seen.

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 What We're Reading

I finished a book that was perfect for kicking off Black History Month: Rosa Parks and Claudette Colvin: Civil Rights Heroes by Tracey Baptiste and Shauna J. Grant. This is part of the outstanding middle-grade History Comics series (I previously enjoyed The Roanoke Colony: America's First Mystery and The Great Chicago Fire and The National Parks: Preserving America's Wild Places (a must-read for all kids!). Don't know who Claudette Colvin was? That's the point of this book: that stunning, revolutionary changes occur as the result of many unsung heroes doing their own part to move things forward. Claudette was a 15-year-old Black girl in Birmingham who made headlines across the state for refusing to give up her seat to a white woman on a bus. She was dragged off the bus by police, charged with defying segregation laws, disturbing the peace, and assaulting police officers (which, of course, she did not do) and eventually convicted in court. And all of this happened before the famous moment when Rosa Parks refused to give up her bus seat! And did you know that Rosa Parks was involved in civil rights all her life, long before her moment of fame on the bus? I learned so much reading this wonderful book that is making the point that many of the real heroes making change are quietly working behind the scenes--and this message is so important right now. A must-read for kids ... and adults, too.

 

Now, I am enjoying another excellent Black History Month pick, Deacon King Kong by James McBride (my first by this acclaimed novelist). This is a buddy read with a friend in Singapore; discussing a great book with a friend makes it even greater! The title character, who is known as Sportcoat, is an older Black man living in a housing project in Brooklyn in 1969. He's lost his wife and is drinking heavily, so he's barely aware of what he's doing one day when he grabs an old gun, marches out into their courtyard, and shoots a young drug dealer named Deems, whom he used to coach in the project baseball team. That sets off a chain of events. This is a very entertaining novel, peopled by vibrant, unique characters (all with funny nicknames) that often makes me laugh out loud or read outrageous lines to my husband ("Has your cheese done slid off your cracker?"). But beneath the vivid frivolity, McBride is writing about some serious issues of race and class: the effects of drugs, crime, and criminal organizations on neighborhoods; the disparity between poor people of color and wealthy white people; and the way that a neighborhood can become a close-knit community. I'm loving it so far.

 

I finished Between Two Kingdoms: A Memoir of a Life Interrupted by Suleika Jaouad, a book I've been meaning to read for ages! It's all about the author's experiences as a 22-year-old cancer patient with a deadly form of leukemia that was quite advanced by the time she was finally diagnosed. I'd heard of her story because she is now married to Jon Batiste, the fabulous musician from New Orleans, and I knew he'd taken time off to care for her. (Jon sang the national anthem at the Superbowl last night, playing on a piano beautifully painted by Suleika.) She reads the memoir herself, and the audio is excellent. It's a very moving story, and I've been bookmarking many passages because so many of her observations are things I can really relate to, as someone with chronic illness. I was so moved by her memoir and her experiences that I immediately followed her on Instagram, signed up for her SubStack, and found several great podcast interviews with her (the best is one on Hoda Kotb's Making Space podcast with both Suleika and Jon).


My husband, Ken, just finished another Christmas gift from me, The Dog Stars by Peter Heller. He and I are both big fans of Heller, since I met the author at Booktopia in 2017 and read his novel, Celine. Since then, we've both enjoyed his other outdoor thrillers, The River, The Guide, and The Last Ranger. This one is post-apocalyptic, and Ken said it was great. It's one of Heller's earliest novels.


 Our son, 30, is reading Practical Adept, book 17 of the Spellmonger series by Terry Mancour, which he loves! He's been working six days a week, and this book is over 1,000 pages!

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What Are You Reading Monday is hosted by Kathryn at Book Date, so head over and check out her blog and join the Monday fun! You can also participate in a kid/teen/YA version hosted by Unleashing Readers.

You can follow me on Twitter at @SueBookByBook or on Facebook on my blog's page.
 

What are you and your family reading this week?