Wednesday, October 04, 2017

Fiction Review: Be Frank With Me


I was thrilled when my neighborhood book group chose Be Frank With Me by Julia Claiborne Johnson for our September selection because I’d heard good things about this novel. It lived up to my expectations – almost everyone in my book group loved this funny, quirky, heartwarming story of a very unusual little boy.

Alice is a young twenty-something assistant working in the publishing industry. Her boss, editor Isaac Vargas, gives her a strange but important assignment: to fly to California and help one of their star authors finish a long-awaited book. M. M. Banning (known as Mimi to her friends) is a mysterious and reclusive author who wrote one best-seller when she was young that became a classic and never wrote another novel (think Harper Lee and To Kill a Mockingbird). She’s gone through some financial difficulties and now needs to publish a second novel, decades later.

Alice is sent to help her with household tasks so she can write, help her with the computer (she still writes on a typewriter), and keep an eye on the progress of the book for Mr. Vargas. When she arrives, however, she finds that her primary role is that of caretaker for Mimi’s unusual nine-year old boy, Frank. In fact, Mimi doesn’t let her see anything she’s working on.

To give you an idea of Frank’s oddness, here is Alice’s first glimpse of him:
“M.M. Banning and I were seated on the living room couch, watching her son playing outside in the hot, bright son. The kid, dressed in a tattered tailcoat and morning pants, accessorized by bare feet and a grubby face, looked like some fictional refugee from the pages of Oliver Twist, one who’d walked all the way to Los Angeles from Dicken’s London and had slept in ditches at night along the way.”

That passage also gives you a glimpse of the author’s wonderful sense of humor. Those turned out to be Frank’s play clothes. He always dresses in miniature outfits that look like they came from classic Hollywood films but was usually far more dapper and cleaned up for outings beyond the house and yard. Here’s a passage from the opening prologue, describing Frank as he and Alice rode a city bus together:
“But his looks weren’t what had our fellow travelers transfixed, certainly not in a place like Hollywood where gorgeous kids are so common that you even see them on city buses. No, what got people staring was Frank’s look. Before we left the house that morning, he’d shellacked his hair like a mini Rudolph Valentino, put on a wing-collared shirt, white tie and vest, a cutaway coat, morning pants, and spats. Also a top hat, which he balanced on his knees while we rode to the hospital because, as he’d explained to our bus driver when the man admired it, “A gentleman never wears his hat indoors.” “

So, yes, Frank is adorable but also very hard to get close to. He’s a very quirky kid (after a while, you realize he probably has autism), as is his reclusive mother. Frank has two hard and fast rules: No touching Frank, and no touching Frank’s things. Alice, of course, learns the importance of these rules by trial and error.

Alice and Frank spend their days together, in a constantly amusing way, and slowly – very slowly – get to know each other better and come to care about each other. Mimi is mostly shut up in her room, typing (at least Alice hopes she’s really typing). There is a big mystery as to who Frank’s father is, since Mimi has never said. Add into the equation one other person whom the isolated Bannings allow into their lives – the mysterious Xander, a handsome man who describes himself as Frank’s “piano teacher and itinerant male role model.”

This is a very, very funny novel. It’s become trite to say something is “laugh-out-loud funny,” but it is really true in this case – I was bursting out with unexpected laughter the whole time I was reading this book. It’s not just funny, though; this is also a very warm, tender story about the growing relationship between Alice and Frank. Elements of mystery and suspense are also woven in along the way. Will Mimi finish her book? Who is Frank’s father? Where does Xander go when he disappears and what is his story anyway? Quirky, prickly, sweet Frank, though, is at the heart of this witty, clever, uplifting story, and I was sorry to say goodbye to him at the end.

287 pages, William Morrow

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Tuesday, October 03, 2017

TV Tuesday: The Killing

For the past few weeks, during the end-of-summer TV lull, my husband and I have gotten hooked on a dark, suspenseful mystery series called The Killing on Netflix. All the new fall shows are starting now, but we are still loving this great suspense show!

Mareille Enos (more recently of The Catch) plays homicide detective Sarah Linden. As the first episode opens, Sarah is on her last day on the job in Seattle, ready to retire and start a new life with her boyfriend in sunny Sonoma, CA. She and her son, Jack (played by Liam James), have tickets for a late-night flight and have already packed up their home.

Then, a new case hits: a 16-year old girl, Rosie Lawsen, is missing and soon found dead. The case really gets under Sarah's skin as she and her replacement, Stephen Holden (played by Joel Kinnaman), criss-cross the city trying to find clues to Rosie's murder. Sarah misses her late-night deadline - a few times - and finally pledges to stay an extra week to try to wrap up the case. But this case is not easily solved.

Meanwhile, Rosie's family is devastated. Her father, Stan (played by Brent Sexton), owns his own moving company, but years ago he worked for the Russian mob as a "fixer." Her mother, Mitch (played by Michelle Forbes), is wrecked by depression at the loss of her daughter and can't even take care of their remaining two younger sons. Her sister, fun aunt Terry, steps in to help.

Meanwhile, there is a close mayoral race going on in Seattle, pitting the sitting mayor, Lesley Adams (played by Tom Butler) against the handsome, charismatic man-of-the-people councilman Darren Richmond, played by Billy Campbell. Politics gets pulled into the mix when a car registered to the councilman's campaign is found to be connected to the case.

The action goes back and forth between the detectives trying to solve the case, the grieving family who wants justice, and the ever-more nasty political campaign, as the Richmond side tries to distance itself from the horrific crime, and the Mayor tries to imply Richmond was involved. The tone of the show is dark and brooding, much like Sarah herself, set against the backdrop of a mostly dark and always raining Seattle (you won't want to visit the city after seeing all this dark rain!). There is plenty of suspense as the experienced detective and the newbie work (sometimes at odds with each other) to try to find a lead, with all kinds of unexpected twists and turns in the plot.

The entire cast is excellent in this show, but Mareille Enos is really outstanding. If you've only seen her before as the glamorous, wealthy Alice on The Catch, you will barely recognize her here. This is a grittier, more real feeling Enos who fully inhabits the character of Sarah, with her almost-obsession with being a good detective and solving this case in constant battle with her desire to be a good mom (and some secrets in her background). Her relationship with Holden is also an interesting one to watch develop, as she completely distrusts him at first, and he has his own secrets. His performance is also very good - both characters feel real and relatable.

We are in the middle of season 2 (of 4 seasons total), and Linden and Holden are still working on the same case, with all elements of the show digging deeper and deeper. There are surprises and red herrings in every show, plus plenty of character development on all sides. Like I said, we are completely hooked. If you liked The Fall, this show has a similar dark, gritty feel to it (it seems to be as dark and rainy in Ireland as it is in Seattle). It's perfect for this spooky season! (though we enjoyed it during the hot summer, too).

The Killing is a Netflix Original program, so it is available for streaming only on Netflix, with all four seasons there. Or you can watch it on DVD (link below).







Monday, October 02, 2017

It's Monday 10/2! What Are You Reading?

Whew. Last week didn't turn out the way I'd planned. I was supposed to go on a little vacation with my husband for our 28th anniversary and his 40th college reunion in Oklahoma. Instead, he went by himself, and my oldest son and I drove to my hometown of Rochester, NY, for my uncle's funeral. He passed away Monday night at age 74 after a difficult battle with a form of dementia. It was, of course, very sad to lose him, and he wasn't very old, but his last months and especially the last days were pretty bad, so it was a blessing that he didn't linger for long in that state.

So, I spent my week cancelling one trip, planning another, and putting together a memorial DVD with photos, music, and videos. I was very glad to have made the decision to go. It was such a comfort to be with my family and see all my cousins, and my son and I were glad to be there for my aunt and two cousins who lost their husband/father. It was emotional for me because this was the brother closest to my dad, who just died two years ago. I certainly understood how my cousins were feeling.

It was a wonderful service and just great to see not only my close family but also extended family and some very old friends of my dad's and my uncle's whom I hadn't seen since I was a kid. I was also very grateful for my son's help - he did most of the driving - and his company.

A sad week and very busy, so little time for blogging, though we always fit in some reading time - it's comforting during difficult times. Here's what we were reading this past week:
  • I am still reading (almost finished) In a Cold and Lonely Place by Sara J. Henry, an author I met at Booktopia in May. I bought this literary suspense novel for my husband, and he liked it. It's the story of a reporter in Lake Placid, NY, who is present when a body is found encased in the frozen lake, and it turns out to be a man she knows. It's a slow, dark burn with plenty of tension and suspense, as she works on a series of articles about the dead man while how he died remains a mystery (hopefully to be revealed now that I am near the end!). 
  • I finished listening to Masterminds: Payback, the third and final book of a middle-grade trilogy by Gordon Kormon. I loved the first book, Masterminds, and its sequel. It's a fast-paced thriller with sci fi elements, and book 3 was just as compelling, with a satisfying ending.
  • Now, I am listening to another middle-grade sci fi thriller, Horizon by renowned author Scott Westerfeld. This is book 1 of a new series that starts with a group of kids on their way to a robot competition in Japan when their plane crashes. Nothing about the crash or their surroundings afterward seems quite right. It combines sci fi elements with mystery and survival adventure. I'm enjoying it so far. Believe it or not, I think this might be the first Westerfeld novel I have read!
  • My husband, Ken, finished The Son by Jo Nesbo, a stand-alone thriller not featuring his well-known Harry Hole character. He really enjoyed it.
  • Now, Ken is reading Deadly Cure by Lawrence Goldstone, a historical thriller set in NYC in 1899. He was looking for a compelling and lightweight paperback for the plane, and I received this one for review. I'm guessing he didn't have much time for reading this weekend with all the reunion events!
  • Jamie, 23, is reading an epic fantasy, Swords and Scoundrels by Julia Knight, book 1 of The Duelists trilogy, and enjoying it. He says it's similar to the Three Musketeers, with elements of steampunk and fantasy/magic mixed in. He's almost finished, but he didn't have much reading time either - he did most of the driving this weekend!
Notice a theme here? I finally posted my official sign-up for the R.I.P. Challenge, which I enjoy every fall, and have been enjoying lots of suspense, thrillers, mysteries, and other creepy stuff!

Just two blog posts last week:
TV Tuesday: Salvation - a suspenseful thriller that mixes a potential apocalypse with politics

 2017 R.eaders I.mbibing P.eril Challenge XII - see what I'm reading & join the fun!

What Are You Reading Monday is hosted by Kathryn at Book Date, so head over and check out her blog and join the Monday fun! You can also participate in a kid/teen/YA version hosted by Unleashing Readers.

What are you and your family reading this week?  

You can follow me on Twitter at @SueBookByBook or on Facebook on my blog's page. 

Sunday, October 01, 2017

R.eaders I.mbibing P.eril Challenge XII 2017



It's that time of year again! Time for some creepy, spooky reading for the 
R.eaders I.mbibing P.eril Challenge (R.I.P.) hosted by Estella's Revenge and My Capricious Life. 

I've participated in this fun fall challenge for the past few years, and I always enjoy it because I like reading a bit of dark stuff (not too dark), but I don't always find the time. I used to read suspense, mystery, and thrillers almost exclusively, until I discovered reading groups and reviewing and broadened my reading horizons. And my husband LOVES to read this stuff. So, my TBR bookcase (yes, an entire bookcase!) includes lots of good creepy stuff. In September and October, I enjoy focusing on that and also making a dent in my TBR pile!

Now, before you say, "Oh, I don't read horror," let me explain that the R.I.P. Challenge is pretty broad - it includes anything a bit dark: mysteries, suspense, thrillers, supernatural or paranormal, gothic, and yes, horror, too. So, the books you read can be as scary or wimpy as you prefer. Most of mine are suspense. mystery, or thriller.

I actually started this challenge back on September 1, when it began, but this is my first chance to officially sign up and post about it.

So, I have already read or am almost finished with these creepy books:


  • In a Dark, Dark Wood by Ruth Ware (literary mystery/thriller)
  • Hear the Wolves by Victoria Scott (middle-grade outdoor adventure)
  • Hollow City (book 2 of the Miss Peregrine's Home for Peculiar Children series by Ransom Riggs (YA fantasy & suspense)
  • A Cold and Lonely Place by Sara J. Henry (literary thriller - almost finished)
  • Not shown: Masterminds: Payback by Gordon Kormon (book 3 in a middle-grade sci fi thriller series) - listened on audio
  • Not shown: Horizon by Scott Westerfeld (middle-grade sci fi thriller) - currently listening on audio
Don't the covers all look creepy? They kind of match. Though, to be clear, none of the covers have spiders printed on them - I got the Halloween decorations out and added those for effect!
And here is a stack I plan to draw from for the rest of the month - I probably won't get to all of these (highly unlikely), but these are some of the many on my shelf I am dying to read that fit for the R.I.P. Challenge:


  • Before the Fall by Noah Hawley (literary suspense)
  • The Sleepwalker by Chris Bohjalian (literary suspense)
  • Artemis by Andy Weir, author of The Martian (suspenseful sci fi)
  • The Woman in Cabin 10 by Ruth Ware (literary thriller)
  • The Only Thing to Fear by Caroline Tung Richmond (middle-grade suspense)

I'm having so much fun already and can't wait to read the rest! Do you enjoy reading anything creepy or suspenseful? Join the fun and sign up at the link above.

Happy Spooky Reading Season!

Tuesday, September 26, 2017

TV Tuesday: Salvation

I'm a little late with this review of Salvation, a CBS summer show that started in July, but since it is still available in a couple of places, I thought I'd go ahead and review it now. My husband and I have enjoyed this fast-paced show that is a mix of sci fi thriller and political conspiracy and just watched the season one finale this week.

MIT grad student Liam Cole, played by the adorably scruffy Charlie Rowe, one day discovers a large asteroid that is on a course to collide with Earth in 186 days. He rushes to the home of his professor, played by Dennis Boutsikaris, but finds a huge mess in his office, his glasses crushed on the floor, and his professor nowhere to be found. Scared now, Liam rushes across campus, trying to stay away from whatever "bad guys" found his professor. That same day, Liam meets Jillian, a beautiful young writer played by Jacqueline Byers, and it's love at first sight for both of them.

Desperate to tell someone about the asteroid who can help, Liam crashes into a TED-type talk given by Darius Tanz, played by Santiago Cabrera, a tech billionaire who runs a powerful company. It takes some convincing, but Darius soon believes Liam and understands the seriousness of the problem. The two head to Tanz Industries headquarters in D.C. and contact Grace Barrows, played by Jennifer Finnigan, who is the Press Secretary for the Assistant Secretary of Defense, Harris, played by Ian Anthony Dale.

Two different but related threads run through the show. There's the science side of things, where Darius and Liam race against time to try to figure out how to either destroy the asteroid or move it off course. And there's the political side of things, where Grace and Harris (sometimes working at odds with each other; other times working together) try to convince those in power to provide the necessary funding and support. Through it all, only a very small group of people even know about the asteroid - they are afraid that if it becomes public knowledge, panic and chaos will ensue.

There's a lot going on in this show to keep it moving at a fast pace. In addition to the main storylines, Darius is secretly working on an "ark," a rocket that would hold 160 people and could make it to Mars; there's an existing romance between Grace and Harris; a new romance between Liam and Jillian (though he can't tell her about the asteroid); political machinations; and a small issue of ever-worsening conflict and perhaps approaching war between Russia and the US. It's all very exciting, with plenty of suspense, and the acting is good, with excellent chemistry between the main characters. The science might be a bit iffy in places, but that's typical for this sort of sci fi thriller - you just suspend disbelief and go along for the ride. And what a ride it is! We watched this show the old-fashioned way, once a week as each new episode was released (well, not entirely old-fashioned - we watched it On Demand), and we were always eager to see the next one. It ended with a huge cliff-hanger, so I hope there will be a season 2!

Season 1 (13 episodes) just finished airing on CBS. The last 5 episodes are available for free On Demand or on the CBS website. To see the first 8 episodes on CBS, you have to subscribe to their service. The entire first season is available FREE to Amazon Prime members or you can purchase episodes for $1.99 each (link below) on Amazon.





Monday, September 25, 2017

It's Monday 9/25! What Are You Reading?

Super late with my post today after a very hectic morning - out the door early for fasting bloodwork, back home for a quick breakfast, then to PT and massage for my shoulder injury, then a stop at the grocery store and finally home! Whew. Unfortunately, that will be the norm for this week until later when we head to Oklahoma for my husband's 40th college reunion. That should be fun - besides his reunion, we'll be seeing one of my best friends from high school (oddly enough, we both married Oklahoma guys!) - and hopefully not too tiring for me. I'll get a little downtime while my husband is out golfing. And, hey, flying means LOTS of reading time, right?

Last week was busy, too, but we enjoyed our books - celebrating this spooky fall season (even though it has been 90 degrees here!). Here's what we've been reading:
  • I finished a YA fantasy thriller, Hollow City by Ransom Riggs, the second book in the Miss Peregrine's Peculiar Children series. I enjoyed the first book, and my son's girlfriend loaned me this one. It was just as good - fun, suspenseful, and with a sense of humor, too. I love how the author builds his story around real vintage photos he's found of creepy/weird stuff! Very creative.
  • I was in that in-between stage - didn't want to start the longer book I'm planning to bring on the trip but not quite enough time to squeeze in another - so I chose a short (but still creepy) novel, In a Cold and Lonely Place by Sara J. Henry, an author I met at Booktopia in May. I bought this book for my husband, and he liked it. It's the story of a reporter in Lake Placid, NY, who is present when a body is found encased in the frozen lake, and it turns out to be someone she knows. I've just started it, but it already has a dark tension to it with plenty of suspense.
  • On audio, I am listening to Masterminds: Payback, the third and final book of a middle-grade trilogy by Gordon Kormon. I loved the first book, Masterminds, and its sequel. It's a fast-paced thriller with sci fi elements, and book 3 is just as compelling.
  • My husband, Ken, is reading The Son by Jo Nesbo, a stand-alone thriller not featuring his well-known Harry Hole character. He's really enjoying it.
  • Jamie, 23, is reading an epic fantasy, Swords and Scoundrels by Julia Knight, book 1 of The Duelists trilogy, and enjoying it. He says it's similar to the Three Musketeers, with elements of steampunk and fantasy/magic mixed in. He's home today, and says he'll probably finish it tonight.
Last week's blog posts:
Movie Monday: Gold starring Matthew McConaughey, drama about gold prospecting

TV Tuesday: Fall TV We Are Looking Forward To

Fiction Review: The Hearts of Men by Nickolas Butler, about friendship through generations

Nonfiction Review: The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo - some good advice but also a little nutty!

My Summary of Books Read in August

Saturday Snapshot: Lake Atsion, New Jersey Pinelands - pics from our camping/kayaking

What Are You Reading Monday is hosted by Kathryn at Book Date, so head over and check out her blog and join the Monday fun! You can also participate in a kid/teen/YA version hosted by Unleashing Readers.

What are you and your family reading this week?  

You can follow me on Twitter at @SueBookByBook or on Facebook on my blog's page.


Remember if you are participating in my Big Book Summer Challenge to leave links to your reviews on the challenge page (the second links list is for reviews, updates, and wrap-ups) to share them. I know many of you enjoyed your Big Books this summer! The Challenge is finished, but you can continue to link up your reviews and/or wrap-up posts through the end of September.

Saturday, September 23, 2017

Saturday Snapshot: Atsion Lake - New Jersey Pinelands


Saturday Snapshot is hosted by Melinda at West Metro Mommy Reads.

Last weekend, my husband and I managed a short getaway to the nearby New Jersey Pinelands (aka Pine Barrens - I think they are trying to do some rebranding!). We camped at Atsion Lake in the Wharton State Forest and enjoyed kayaking. Unfortunately, we also endured an unexpected, heavy rainstorm and very noisy neighbors, but the kayaking was lovely, and we both enjoyed some extra reading time! Here are some highlights - the lake was completely calm, creating a glass-like reflection:


Sunset view of the lake from our campsite

Perfect reflection while kayaking

Kayaking through the clouds (my husband)

First signs of fall (even though it is still HOT)

Cloud reflections

Red bush reflected in the lake

The requisite kayaking selfie!

Fog on the lake after the rainstorm at dusk

Hope you are having a wonderful weekend! Supposed to be above 90 degrees here tomorrow - I though yesterday was the first day of fall!?!

Friday, September 22, 2017

Books Read in August

It's only September 22 - woohoo! I'm catching up! Seriously, this is better than the past two months.

August was a good reading month for me, with a focus on Big Books for my Summer Challenge and review books for Shelf Awareness. Here's what I finished in August:






So, I read seven books total in August, including four Big Books over 400 pages. Six books were fiction, and one nonfiction, and all were adult books, with no middle-grade or YA, which is unusual for me. It's also unusual for me to read more than one book for Shelf Awareness per month, but that's just the way it worked out in August. The graphic novel was a late addition, but well worth the extra time - it was riveting. None of those three reviews have yet been published on Shelf Awareness, but I will link to each of them when they are - all three were excellent. It's hard to choose a favorite out of this venerable line-up because I enjoyed all of them, but I think it would be my re-read of Jane Eyre.

Progress on 2017 Reading Challenges:
This is my favorite part of my monthly summary - updating my Reading Challenges! Three of my 7 books were from my own shelves for my Read Your Own Damn Books Challenge, which is better than in past months! For the Monthly Motif Reading Challenge, August was Seasons, Elements & Weather, so
Dust by Hugh Howey fits, with its post-apocalyptic ruined world outside the silo. I finally read another classic for the 2017 Back to the Classics Challenge - I listed Jane Eyre by Charlotte Brontë under the Romance Classic category. I slotted two of my books into categories for my Well-Rounded Challenge, but the categories are almost filled up now - Jane Eyre fit into "published before 1950" and Dust fit into "finish a series" (I don't often read series). No new countries for my Travel the World in Books Reading Challenge. For my 2017 Literary Escapes Challenge, I added just one more state, Wisconsin. And I read 4 books over 400 pages for my own Big Book Summer Challenge (I only just realized that The Hearts of Men counted, too, since I listened to it on audio!).

Finally, Bookish Bingo hosted by Chapter Break - not really a challenge per se, but a fun game that I play each month! I filled in 17 squares on my Bingo card last month:





Spaces filled in:

Jane Eyre - Loyal, empowered female, packing/moving, road trip/travel 
The Hearts of Men - Audio book, swimming, summer fling
The Ninth Hour - Free book, historical
Dust - Siblings/kids, in a series
Machine Learning - Science fiction/fantasy, stars on the cover
The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up - Meh
The Hunting Accident - Set in a city, loner
Free Space

What was your favorite book read in August? 

Thursday, September 21, 2017

Nonfiction Review: The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up


In the spring, I was at the check-out counter of Northshire Bookstore in Manchester, VT, mostly buying gifts for other people, when I grabbed a copy of Marie Kondo’s best-selling mega hit The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up: The Japanese Art of Decluttering and Organizing. I figured I should finally read it for myself to find out what all the fuss was about! We have lived in our home for 22 years and raised two kids here, so we could definitely use some decluttering, and I like having things organized. Kondo has some good advice in this slim book and some interesting ways of approaching these tasks, but I also came away thinking she’s a little bit nutty!

There are a couple of unique approaches about her KonMari Method. The one aspect I am most likely to use from her book is that she focuses on what to keep instead of what to get rid of. I am probably like most people in that I approach decluttering with an eye on what I can throw away or donate – flipping through my closet the night before a charity pick-up, thinking, “Hmmm…I haven’t worn this in years, this doesn’t fit anymore, etc.” Conversely, Marie Kondo recommends going through your stuff and for each item, considering whether it sparks joy. This was intriguing to me, since I like to focus on joy in my life, but – again thinking of clothing – I know I keep items that fit me and are OK, but I don’t really love. Kondo says to get rid of those and keep only what sparks joy.

The other unique part of her approach that won’t work for me but might for other people is that she does not recommend going room-by-room or one closet or bookcase or dresser at a time. Rather, she recommends working through one category of item at a time. So, when you are decluttering and organizing your clothing, she says to pull out ALL of your clothes at once – every item in closets, dressers, etc. – and go through it all at once, holding every single item to decide if it sparks joy. Same with books – every single book in your house! That makes logical sense, but with my very limited physical stamina, I would manage it for an hour or 90 minutes and then run out of energy and be stuck with all my clothes or books in the middle of the room! But I can see what she’s getting at – it’s hard to make progress one small bit at a time. I do think she is right about having to take everything out of the closet or dresser or wherever because I know I don’t accomplish much when I try to go through items still packed together.

So, why did I say that Marie Kondo is a little nutty? Well, she goes pretty far afield in her recommendations on storage and organization, after you’ve finished decluttering. She is really into folding and says everything should be folded and stored standing on its edge like books (but she is talking about clothing). She also fervently believes that your stuff needs to “rest” when you are not using it. Here’s what she says to one client:
“I pointed to the balled-up socks. ‘Look at them carefully. This should be a time for them to rest. Do you really think they can get any rest like that?’ ”
She also recommends completely emptying your purse every single day when you get home – again, so that it can rest in between uses. She says we should thank our things for their service – at the end of the day and before we get rid of them. She concludes, toward the end of the book, with this:
“Everything you own wants to be of use to you. Even if you throw it away or burn it, it will only leave behind the energy of wanting to be of service. Freed from its physical form, it will move about your world as energy, letting other things know that you are a special person, and come back to you as the thing that will be of most use to who you are now, the thing that will bring you the most happiness.”
O.K. I think I am just a bit too logical and analytical for that! She also focuses on attaining an ideal that I’m really not interested in – a very spare home with nothing out in the open and all items able to be stored in a single closet. Maybe this is somewhat of a cultural difference, as I know that is more of a Japanese ideal than an American one. I enjoy being surrounded by things I love. Of course, as an avid reader, I can’t imagine purging books as thoroughly as she suggests, and I have heard other book lovers say the same. I love having a full bookcase in every room of my home! Those definitely spark joy. Still, I could certainly use some culling and decluttering.

Marie Kondo’s book spent 99 weeks on the New York Times best-seller list and sold over six million copies worldwide, so it seems that she and her methods are very, very popular. She offers some excellent advice in this slim volume (and she wrote a sequel, Spark Joy: An Illustrated Master Class on the Art of Organizing and Tidying Up, for those who want more detail). Some of her approaches are different from what you normally read in decluttering and organizing advice, though her methods may not be practical for everyone. Although I don’t think I’ll be thanking my possessions for their service or emptying my purse every day, I do hope to put some of her advice into practice.

206 pages, Ten Speed Press (Berkeley)

I’m interested to hear what YOU think of Marie Kondo’s methods! Have you tried any of the approaches in The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up? What were your experiences?
I purchased this book myself.

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Wednesday, September 20, 2017

Fiction Review: The Hearts of Men

I remember hearing intriguing reviews of The Hearts of Men by Nickolas Butler when it was first published in March, so I was glad for the opportunity to listen to the audio book this summer. It was an engrossing story of friendship and life’s ups and downs, following several generations.

In 1962 at age thirteen, Nelson Doughty is a social outcast, the classic geek who is an over-achiever but doesn’t have any friends. Every summer, Nelson goes to Camp Chippewa, a Boy Scout camp among the forests and lakes of Wisconsin. Nelson, is, of course, a stellar Scout, earning more merit badges than anyone else and aiming for Eagle Scout before he turns sixteen and then the military. He’s also the camp bugler, waking the other boys and counselors every morning by playing his WWI veteran grandfather’s battered trumpet.

This summer, Nelson thinks he might finally have made a friend. Jonathan is older than Nelson, but he was the only person to show up for Nelson’s birthday party back home. Jonathan is popular, handsome, and athletic, but he has shown some small kindnesses to Nelson. That summer at camp, Nelson suffers some horrible bullying, and though Jonathan doesn’t openly befriend Nelson, he does try to squelch some of the abuse and for that, Nelson is grateful and considers Jonathan a friend.

After immersing the reader in that summer of 1962 at Camp Chippewa, the novel then jumps forward in time several decades. Nelson did indeed join the military and fought in Vietnam, carrying scars both physical and emotional. He has now become the Scoutmaster of Camp Chippewa and once again spends his summers there. Jonathan married and took over his father’s company, making it a success, though he carries plenty of bitterness. The two erstwhile friends are reunited when Jonathan brings his teen son to camp.

Then the story once again jumps ahead in time several decades to Jonathan’s daughter-in-law and grandson, as they head to Camp Chippewa in this generational family tradition. The teen boy is not excited to still be going to camp, but his mom, who is chaperoning, is looking forward to seeing Nelson, her father-in-law’s old friend and the venerable head of the camp for many decades. The audio production brought all of these generations of men (and one woman) to life.

The Hearts of Men is an immersive story that pulls you into the woods of Wisconsin and the rustic Camp Chippewa along with its characters. Butler has developed a distinctive sense of place – and, in later chapters, nostalgia – that carries through time. It’s fascinating to see how the events of their youth affect both Nelson and Jonathan and the repercussions through multiple generations. It’s a sad (even horrifying) novel at times, addressing issues of bullying, abuse, infidelity, and divorce, and neither of the original two characters has a particularly happy life. But the novel also focuses on healing, family, and hope, bringing that old friendship full circle by the end. I enjoyed this emotionally complex and absorbing novel peopled with multi-dimensional, flawed characters.

400 pages, Ecco

You can listen to a free audio sample at the Audible/Amazon link below.

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Hearts of Men
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Tuesday, September 19, 2017

Fall TV We Are Looking Forward To

Yes, yes, it's back-to-school time, kids off to college, weather turning cooler (or supposed to anyway)...but fall also means the new TV season is here! Granted, it's not like in the old days, when all new shows started in fall. Now we have streaming services launching new shows constantly and even the networks introducing new shows every season, but fall is still the biggest season for the biggest shows and the biggest launches. Here's what we are looking forward to, both old and new:

Returning Favorites
We can't wait for some of our old favorite shows to return! Here's a list of the ones we are most looking forward to, along with links to my past reviews and start dates for this fall:
  • Scorpion, season 4 begins 9/25 - a fun show about a group of genius misfits helping the government - not always believable but fun, suspenseful, a good sense of humor, and even a bit of geek romance.  We've been watching it for 3 years, but I guess I haven't reviewed it yet!
  • Blacklist, season 5 starts 9/27 - we still enjoy this fast-paced thriller starring James Spader as the mysterious Red. Can't believe I haven't reviewed that one yet, either!
  • Designated Survivor, season 2 starts 9/27 - and we can't wait! We loved the first season of this political drama crossed with an action thriller starring Keifer Sutherland as a former HUD Secretary who becomes President when the rest of the country's leadership is killed in a bombing. 
  • Grey's Anatomy, season 14 (!!) starts 9/28 - yes, we still watch this long-running medical drama!
  • How To Get Away With Murder, season 4 starts 9/28 - this complicated legal thriller
    co-created by the great Shonda Rhimes always starts with some startling event and then flashes back to fill in the blanks.
  • Madam Secretary, season 4 starts 10/8 - we are huge fans of this political drama starring Tea Leoni as Secretary of State.
  • Good Behavior, season 2 starts 10/15 - we loved this new show last winter, based on a series of novels by Blake Crouch (of Wayward Pines fame) about Letty, a con woman, trying to hold onto her beloved son, who hooks up with a killer-for-hire boyfriend. Here's its IMDB page.
  • Travelers, season 2 starts 10/16 -  we watched season 1 of this time-travel show starring Eric McCormack on Netflix last year with our son and loved it!
  • Blindspot, season 3 starts 10/27 - this intriguing thriller features a
    woman found in Times Square covered in tattoos with no memory.
  • Stranger Things, season 2 starts 10/27 - we binged this 80's sci fi Netflix show with our son last year and all loved it! Can't wait to see what happens next.
Yes, yes, I am well aware that it will be a challenge to juggle all those shows! Hopefully, some of the earlier ones will be winding down for a mid-season break by the time the later ones start. And let's not forget about new shows! Here are a few coming this fall that look like they might be worth checking out...

New Shows To Try

I went through a LOT of trailers and narrowed it down to these that look like we might enjoy them:

The Good Doctor (ABC) starting 9/25 - about a young genius surgical resident who is autistic (and whose hiring is controversial)



Ten Days in the Valley (ABC) starting 10/1 - a 10-episode thriller starring Kyra Sedgwick as a TV producer whose daughter goes missing



The Crossing (ABC) starting in October - I think I am most excited about this new sci fi thriller, about a group of refugees who appear in an American town seeking asylum - from 250 years in the future!



Deception (ABC) starting in October - a new suspense thriller about an illusionist/magician working with the FBI



Wow, so many good shows to look forward to this fall!! It all starts next week...get ready for some binge-watching!

What old favorites and new TV shows are you most looking forward to this fall?

Monday, September 18, 2017

Movie Monday: Gold

A few weeks ago, my husband and I found another great recent release free on streaming and watched Gold, starring Matthew McConaughey, a drama that begins in the 80's about a gold prospector who hits it big.

McConaughey plays Kenny Wells, a prospector working for his father's mining company who thinks big. He is always looking for the next substantial find, especially after his father's death, as the business begins to die out. He's got a huge personality and is great at motivating the people he works with, getting them excited about the latest lead, as they work to convince investors to give them money. Desperate, with the company on the verge of bankruptcy, Kenny spends his last dollars and takes off to meet renowned geologist Michael Acosta (played by Edgar Ramirez), who was responsible for a big copper find. Kenny convinces Michael to partner with him to find gold in Indonesia, and Kenny's excitement and ambitions are contagious. Back home, Kenny wrangles what remains of his company to line up investors.

The two men take off into uncharted territory deep in the Indonesian jungle, where the locals have been known to pan for gold in the river for generations. In his dress pants, shirt, and shoes, Kenny stays by Michael's side through the mud and jungle as they bring a group of locals along to help search for that elusive gold that could turn into a successful mine. Failure after failure ensues, and Kenny becomes incapacitated with malaria. Will they succeed? Are Kenny's dreams and Michael's intuitions based on reality or fantasy?

Loosely based on a true story, Gold is a drama full of suspense and emotional depth. McConaughey is amazing as the enthusiastic, driven Kenny, fully inhabiting the character through his ups and downs. You will completely believe in this pot-bellied, receding hairline version of McConaughey and will feel for poor Kenny and root for him to succeed. There are plenty of unexpected twists and turns in the plot, to keep the pace and the suspense moving. My husband and I both thoroughly enjoyed this action-packed drama.

Gold is currently available on DVD and is free on Netflix streaming. It is also available for streaming on Amazon Prime, starting at $4.99 (or the DVD is available for $14.96).