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Monday, May 19, 2025

It's Monday 5/19! What Are You Reading?

Hosted by The Book Date 

 

Life

Whew, what a hectic week!  I spent all last week getting everything ready for the 2025 Big Book Summer Challenge! This annual reading challenge I'm hosting for the 13th year officially kicks off this Friday, May 23. But we have two back-to-back trips, starting last Friday (we got home last night and leave again tomorrow morning!), so I had to get everything ready ahead of time. Start checking your shelves and TBR list for those bigger books (400 or more pages) you've been wanting to read that you never seem to get to!

Friday morning, we drove to the Catskills to meet up with my family. My mom rented a house up there so that our whole family could celebrate her birthday with her. There were 16 of us sharing the house, which could have been challenging (ha ha) but ended up being a whole lot of fun! It was my family (including my sons' girlfriends), my sister's family, my mom and her husband, and my aunt and uncle and their two daughters. The cousins (i.e. the younger generation) especially enjoyed hanging out together all weekend and partying together. They all get along really well and are very close, so this was great for them. And it was fun for the rest of us, too!

All 16 of us!

 

The weather turned out great. We kayaked, played cornhole, hung out on the big deck, ate LOTS of big meals (this rental actually had a table big enough for all 16 of us), and talked and laughed a lot.

Hanging out on the deck

My husband and I took kayaks out on the little pond

My cousin and my son play cornhole

My mom with my two sons

Saturday night, we did karaoke. I have never done karaoke before! I should have known I'd love it because I love singing along to music (loudly, not necessarily well ha ha). It was SO much fun!! My sister did my favorite anthem with me, I Will Survive by Gloria Gaynor, and I was incredibly impressed by my cousins' amazing performance of Fergilicious (without looking at the words!). On the way home, as we listened to the radio, I kept saying to my husband, "Ooh, that would be a great karaoke song!" I'm hooked.

My sister and I singing karaoke with our mom

 

My husband and our son singing karaoke

My health mostly cooperated (thanks to keeping up my routines of strict diet, naps every day, and all my usual meds). While I did have to go to bed much earlier than everyone else, it was still after midnight both nights when I finally turned out my light (I usually only make it to midnight on New Year's Eve). Of course, everyone else up up until 2 or 3 in the morning! It's always strange being the only person at a party not drinking, but after 23 years, I'm used to that. I did get a killer migraine that peaked Saturday evening, but my son came to the rescue with his migraine meds (we have the same diseases and take most of the same meds), so I could do karaoke! 

And, tomorrow morning, we head out again, driving back to NY state, to go to Long Island for our son's girlfriend's graduation. We'll get home Thursday night, just in time to launch Big Book Summer Friday morning! 

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On Video

The Quick to Judge Tag - In this unique tag video, I read the first paragraphs from 5 different books to choose my next read. Which one of the five would YOU have chosen based on the beginnings?

Friday Reads 5-16-25: 4 Good Novels, in Print and on Audio - my brief weekly recap of what I am currently reading and recently finished.

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 What We're Reading
 

I finished reading Rooms for Vanishing by Stuart Nadler (a Booktopia author). It's an unusual look at a Jewish family, the Altermans, in Vienna that was separated by WWII. Supposedly, they were each killed during the war, but were they? We hear each of their stories, as they each assume they were the lone survivor of their family. Daughter Sonja is grown up and living in London, where she was evacuated  during the war as a child, with her conductor husband, who's just gone missing. Mom Fania survived a concentration camp and is living in Montreal, talking with another survivor, after fruitlessly searching for her family after the war. Moses, who was just six months old when he was torn from his mother's arms, is an older man in New York City now, waiting for the birth of his first grandchild and followed by the ghost of his best friend whom he saw shot in front of him as a young man in Prague. And Arnold, the father, is now 99 years old and is suddenly hopeful that his daughter may have survived after he receives a call from an Englishwoman. I read one review where the reviewer flat out stated that they all died, and this was just an imagining, but the official description of the book leaves it more open than that: "A prismatic mind-bending epic about the splintering of a family into different worlds." It was very well-written, engaging, and I enjoyed it. I am always fascinated by the theme of parallel universes. It's a complex novel, so if you want to hear more, I talk about it in my Friday Reads video.

 

After that heavy subject matter, I needed something lighter, so I am reading The Road to Roswell by Connie Willis. I LOVE Willis' Oxford Time Travel series, especially Doomsday Book, Blackout, and All Clear (those last two are a two-book series). Those are among some of my all-time favorite books; my reviews are at the links. This newer novel is not part of the time travel series. It's premise sounds kind of silly: a real alien abducts a bunch of people in and near Roswell during a UFO Festival and makes them drive him (?) somewhere. But, in Connie Willis' capable writing hands, it's a gripping story with equal parts suspense and humor. As each new person is added to the group, there are unexpected twists to the story. The alien is, of course, nothing like what we've come to expect from movies, and the tone is somewhat farcical at times (as are some of the characters), but with an undercurrent of warmth, kindness, and suspense. I am loving the novel so far and have been having trouble putting it down at night!

 

I've been listening to Anxious People by Fredrik Backman on audio. I very much enjoyed Backman's A Man Called Ove on audio and Beartown in print (very different books!), but I haven't read any of his other novels, so I've been looking forward to this one. The basic plot is about a bank robber who ends up taking a group of people at an apartment open house hostage, but the focus in this novel is solidly on the characters: the older and younger police officers investigating and searching for the escaped robber, the highly excitable real estate agent who never stops selling, each of the other hostages, and the bank robber himself. Each of them has a complex backstory that helps to explain their behavior. As is typical of Backman, there is a warmth and poignancy to the story, though it is also funny at times. And I've been surprised by the unexpected plot twists. I'm enjoying it.

 

My husband, Ken, is reading another Robert Crais novel that we picked up in a used bookstore on our road trip, Suspect. He's enjoying getting reacquainted with this author, though he never even took the book out of his suitcase this weekend! He was up late every night with everyone else. 

 

 Our son, 30, is still rereading the Night Angel trilogy by Brent Weeks, an old favorite of his, in preparation for the latest book (Beyond the Shadows). So, he's rereading book 1, The Way of Shadows, and book 2, The Shadow's Way. Not surprisingly, I didn't have a chance to get an update from him this weekend, but I will see what he's reading when we visit this week.

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What Are You Reading Monday is hosted by Kathryn at Book Date, so head over and check out her blog and join the Monday fun! You can also participate in a kid/teen/YA version hosted by Unleashing Readers.

You can follow me on Twitter at @SueBookByBook or on Facebook on my blog's page.


  What are you and your family reading this week?

Monday, May 12, 2025

It's Monday 5/12! What Are You Reading?

Hosted by The Book Date

 

Life

Today, May 12, is International ME/CFS Awareness Day (and May is also both ME/CFS Awareness Month and Lyme Disease Awareness Month). My older son and I both have both of these diseases (and my younger son had ME/CFS as a child but recovered). I talk more about what ME/CFS is, our experiences, and how it relates to Long-COVID in this 3-minute video. Or, click here to learn more about this complex and debilitating immune disorder from a top research organization.

And yesterday was Mother's Day! It was a very rare Mother's Day when I got to stay home and relax with my family (my husband and younger son). My mom's birthday was also yesterday, so typically, we all go to her house for the weekend. This year, she is hosting a big birthday bash at a rental house that sleeps 18 in the Catskills next weekend! There will be 17 of us there (and I'll get to see my older son there as well).

Yesterday was a lovely, quiet day with my husband and son. We took a short walk on my favorite path, along a beautiful creek - so lush, beautiful, and peaceful! We got take-out burgers for lunch, and then my husband made dinner for the three of us, and they showered me with thoughtful gifts. I even got to watch home movies from 2001, when my sons were ages 3 and 6 💗. They were both SO adorable, especially when playing pretend with each other. It was a very nice day.

White Clay Creek

With my husband and son

 

See the two trout?   
My son's girlfriend brought me a prickly pear!

My son knows I love Snoopy & got me earrings when he was in Italy!

My sons Easter morning 2001
 

Also, this weekend, we finally had a chance to plant some flowers my husband picked up for me at our local Native Plant Sale while I was in Vermont. We planted lots of brown-eyed Susans (my namesake!) and more phlox (2 different varieties). The beds should each have blooms from early spring through fall now, instead of only in spring. We also have a new dogwood tree, but are waiting for all the utilities to come by to mark where the lines are before we dig a big hole!

Newly planted phlox in front and brown-eyed Susans behind

3 new brown-eyed Susan plants

Three new phlox plants & purple irises beginning to bloom!

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On Video

Beauty in Books Tag - in this short video, I recommend some of my favorite books (many of them that I don't usually talk about), in answer to fun prompts about different kinds of beauty in books.

Booktopia 2025 Vlog: Author Talks, Book Recommendations, and More Fun! - in my vlog about this year's fabulous Booktopia event, I included lots of video clips of authors talking about and/or reading from their books, plus recommendations from the wonderful booksellers at Northshire Books in Manchester, VT, so you can enjoy the event even if you didn't attend!

 

Booktopia 2025: 11 Books and Authors - with the extra video footage in the vlog, I decided to separate the video of me at home, talking about each of the books and authors at Booktopia - some great recs here!

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 What We're Watching

Poker Face - After a years' long wait, this suspenseful, hilarious TV show is finally back for season 2! Natasha Lyonne is fabulous in this mystery show with a twist. It has suspense, humor, great acting, and a whole lot of fun! And the guest stars in each episode are better than ever. Wait until you see Cynthia Erivo in the first episode of season 2! My review & a trailer at the link.

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 What We're Reading

I'm still reading Rooms for Vanishing by Stuart Nadler (the author who sat at our table for dinner at Booktopia). It's an unusual look at a Jewish family, the Altermans, in Vienna that was separated by WWII. Supposedly, they were each killed during the war, but the novel is an alternate history of what happened to each of them. Daughter Sonja is grown up and living in London, where she was evacuated  during the war as a child, with her conductor husband, who's just gone missing. Mom Fania is living in Montreal, talking with another survivor, after fruitlessly searching for her family after the war. Moses, who was just six months old when he was torn from his mother's arms, is an older man in New York City now, waiting for the birth of his grandchild and followed by the ghost of his best friend. And Arnold, the father, is now 99 years old and is suddenly hopeful that his daughter may have survived after he receives a call from an Englishwoman. I read one review where the reviewer flat out stated that they all died, and this was just an imagining, but the official description of the book leaves it more open than that: "A prismatic mind-bending epic about the splintering of a family into different worlds." It's very well-written, and I'm enjoying it. I am always fascinated by the theme of parallel universes.

 

I finished listening to Sandwich by Catherine Newman. Rachel, who everyone calls Rocky, is a middle-aged mom of adult children going through a very difficult menopause. She and her husband, Nick, and their two twenty-something kids (plus one girlfriend) are at the cottage on Cape Cod that they have rented every summer for 20 years. Rocky's aging parents join them for the last few days. It's set in Sandwich, Mass, and is about the "sandwich generation," which I can definitely relate to! Rocky is dealing with her own hormonal struggles, enjoying the company of her adult children, concerned about her marriage, and worried about her parents. Often, something in the present in this very familiar place sends her reminiscing back to the many summer vacations they've spent here, so you gradually learn the family's history. As their week of vacation continues, multiple secrets come out, from all of the generations. I enjoyed this and have always liked Newman's writing and her sense of humor, since the days (decades ago) when we both wrote for Family Fun Magazine.

 

Just as I finished Sandwich, another Libby audio book became available: Anxious People by Fredrik Backman. I very much enjoyed Backman's A Man Called Ove on audio and Beartown in print (very different books!), but I haven't read any of his other novels, so I've been looking forward to this one. The basic plot is about a bank robber who ends up taking a group of people at an apartment open house hostage, but the focus in this novel is solidly on the characters: the older and younger police officers investigating and searching for the escaped robber, the highly excitable real estate agent who never stops selling, each of the other hostages, and the bank robber himself. Each of them has a complex backstory that helps to explain their behavior. I'm enjoying it so far.

 

My husband, Ken, is reading another Robert Crais novel that we picked up in a used bookstore on our road trip, Suspect. He's enjoying getting reacquainted with this author.

 

 Our son, 30, is still rereading the Night Angel trilogy by Brent Weeks, an old favorite of his, in preparation for the latest book (Beyond the Shadows). So, he's rereading book 1, The Way of Shadows, and book 2, The Shadow's Way. I'll get an update this weekend in the Catskills!

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What Are You Reading Monday is hosted by Kathryn at Book Date, so head over and check out her blog and join the Monday fun! You can also participate in a kid/teen/YA version hosted by Unleashing Readers.

You can follow me on Twitter at @SueBookByBook or on Facebook on my blog's page.
 

  What are you and your family reading this week?